Hey guys, long story short, I've being getting on well with a girl who works in my local coffee shop. There is a good chemistry between us and a week ago I told her I was going to be honest and clear about what I found liked and found sexy about her and that I'd like to hang out sometime. She really loved this and I could see she melted. She then said she was going to be honest too and told me she liked me as well. But she then asked if I knew how old she was, when I said no she said she's 18 and she knows that i'm 29. I said wow that's quite a gap (and was surprised as she seems older, physically and mentally) and qualified her a little...she then said that the age gap doesn’t really matter and we said we would hang out sometime soon.
I sent her a message earlier inviting her to hang out, but it appears she has since had cold feet, she said she 'really likes me, thinks I'm funny' etc 'but its just the age gap'. She added her 'dad is only a few years older than me and she thinks it would be quite weird, not for me but her, and said she doesn't really know if this is a good idea'

When I first read the message I was prepared to let this one go, its the first time I can say I've felt like an old man, but after thinking about it I figure we both like each other and the age gap is her only reservation, she never actually said its a no no but just explained the reason of why it probably isn't a good idea, so I figure there could be a way of getting around any weirdness for her.

I haven't responded to her message yet but need some help here before I do, so how do I move forward from here guys? Do I admit that I find the age gap a little uncomfortable as well (which I do?)
It would be a shame to just blow this one out if there is chemistry between us....

Any help is much appreciated
Stormfever

When it comes to women I have pretty high standards but age isn't on the list. I've been with women 10 years older and 10 years younger. I think that since she's still just a teenager, time is a big deal just because she hasn't experienced much of it(time). I see guys on here asking about older girls all the time and it's always the same thing, the girl is 3 years older, which makes me lol. When you're young, 3 years is a lot. The older you get, 3 years aint shit. Ya know?

ask her to come with you to the cemetery and help you pick out your plot. Or to order some badass new hoverround with fuckin turbo. And tease her for labeling you with this age stamp. Or if you want to take it a bit further, say some shit like, "damn it's too bad your parents didn't have you when they were 12, then we could go out, right?" Then show her how much fun you can be!

Good luck!

id love to fuck a fresh 18 year old

All women will over think things, no matter what their age is. It's as natural to them as breathing. What you need to do is stop talking about the age difference and get back to what created the mutual interest and attraction in the first place, you two hanging out.

I suggest inviting her to hang out just as friends and stop talking about hooking up at all. Once you have her out, the natural attraction will take over and you can go from there.

Say something like, well just because we are in different age ranges doesn't mean we can't hang out as friends, when she agrees, change the subject and talk about something fun. Then once your conversation is flowing, invite her to hang out. Once she is out with you the natural attraction will come back.


If things start to get intimate, just re-assure her that anything between you both will be very private a nobody needs to know anything.
Don't bring up the age difference again.

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thanks for the feedback guys! And I took your advice pookee, think it went down ok! I joked about it being a bad idea because she'll be helping me to find a nursing home in a few months anyway. I also said just because of the age doesn't mean we can't hang out as friends and said the whole shame your parents didn't have you when they were 12.
I have to admit I didn't expect her to respond as I thought it was more of a closure thing but she did respond.
She got my joke but responded by saying i'm not that old, just grown up and not a teenager like her and said we can be friends and hang out as friends. And said her parents were young when they had her.
She put a ? in her response, which she never does, so I guess she wants me to keep the conversation going but she's now cut out the x's at the end.
Any more help/suggestions here would be great guys. Thanks!!

Stormfever, I had no idea you were going to do this through text. You definitely would have been in a better position if you had done this face to face with her. The main and obvious reason is because if you are teasing her about her age issues she needs to see you smiling, laughing, winking, body language and kino. She needs to experience your playful attitude. You can't do that through your phone.

Do not text her again. If you go for coffee, don't bring this up. Just carry on with your normal chit chat. Be your funny, playful and charming self. If she texts you, wait at least a couple hours to text back.

And for all the newbs, this is why we only text to set up dates and tell fucking jokes. It must be something in our male chromosomes that makes us fuck up while texting. It's genetic.

Age matters to most women, and me to some women/18 yr olds it is not an issue at all. No amount of "good game" can change a persons conviction, no amount of getting her to "Qualify" will make a fucking difference if she doesn't want to be with an old guy. Personally, I think you need to stop having such an inner-game weakness (first time i felt soo oldd caussee of her) - and learn what game is about. Are you new? Sounds like it.

If not, what the fuck is up with your mentality? It's like me complaining I can't game 12 year olds now that I'm 22 and saying "I feeell soo oold"

Move the fuck on.

You made "issue" with the fact that she was only 18! Unfortunately you planted the seed in her mind. Best to ignore age differences, or bust her balls about it so that she has to defend herself. "OMG, do they still give you a Kids menu?"

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Thanks for the feedback guys! And pokee I shall remember to do it face to face in the future. However the texting seemed to go ok, she continued with the theme of joking about the age gap and even saying I had many years left before she helps to find a nursing home with me, which I thought positive as she put herself in the role of a partner. That was just the start of the texting, over the next day we sent 30+ messages to each other... I barley used any (?) in any of my texts so she could have broken off the texting at any time but she didn't, it was me who chilled it out in the end as had to leave home for vacation...I generally replied to anything she text me with light humour, statements and some DHV. She was still happy to hang out as friends sometime; reiterating what I said. She seems to have taken a little more interest in me, asking me some questions, rather than just talking about her self. And I swear there is a psychology to using 'X's at the end of texts. She uses them sporadically but if I don't respond for a time I'm guaranteed to get one when she replies back!
Anyway sorry in the delay in responding...I also wanted to run an idea by you as well....I've got some cool photos I've just taken at this beautiful and hot paradise beach; I'm in the middle of a few hb's (friends of mine) lined up with are arms around each other, they all look hot in their bikinis and my tan has come on nice to..I was thinking of sticking them up on facebook and I'm sure this girl will see them...what do you think? A good pre-selection move?
Regards!