I've just turned 30 but I seriously don't look or act like it. I sometimes lie about my age so I don't freak out younger girls. And younger girls usually dig me. I feel kinda bad but then again, not really.

Should I just tell them the truth? Will it ruin the interaction??

Why?

Do you have a fetish for younger girls?

Why lie at all?

My suggestion: Re-calibrate your own demo. That puts you in a negative light. You're relegating yourself to ONS, never the chance for anything else. If that's your goal... that's on you.

Ask yourself this - Do you feel any confidence in yourself to fuck without lying about your age? I don't think you do.... At the moment, duping and deceiving seem to be your go-to gambit. And you do feel guilty, or this thread would never have been written.... You seem to be trying to justify it.

Just NOT my style. I don't apologize for my age - to anyone. If they don't like it - it's their loss; besides... if you have the propensity to lie about the silliest of shit - what else are you lying about?



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I think that's what I need to hear man. I appreciate that. No fetish for younger girls. I take what I can get my hands on. I guess that's why I don't want to mess it up with freaking them out with my age.

But I hear man. If they can't handle the truth it's there loss.

When girls see you everyday in person, age is moot and academic. What they see is what they get. You can't exactly lie. But many are curious. It's an IOI. When girls ask me how old I am, I tell an outrageous lie. I say I'm 85 years old.

Some girls pester me about my age for months. I ignore their questions most of the time or say, "Don't worry. You won't get jailed for child abuse. I'm no longer a minor." Still, they keep the kino coming and drop hints if I could be their boyfriend.

Lying with intent to deceive is not good for managing expectations. On the other hand, outrageous lies are good for banter. Women love banter and teasing. There's a great deal of difference. It's all about the intent.

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I would have loved to fuck the 20-year olds.... And I know if I gamed them, I'd score occasionally.

That doesn't do it for me. I want to score when I feel like it; and plan my attack accordingly. I gamed nothing but 35+ (ten years younger than myself). It's just what I've found as the lower end of my attraction zone. I can get the attention and keep it for someone in their lower 30's, but I've just found my niche. My close rate increased exponentially as I pre-selected my targets before even thinking about opening. I've trained my brain to ignore anyone under that demographic.

Sure, I bet I'd lost chicks right on the edge - but I didn't even notice, and slayed more than my share this year (before committing to my GF).



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When I was younger I liked older women, now that Im getting old, I like younger women. Never understood why guys my age chased young women, but I do now.

i think it's something about recapturing that youthful part of yourself. A young womans lips as so soft and moist, and their faces are so fresh and soft, and they bounce around with energy, and they dont have baggage.

It's a challenge either way. Lying is only good for the night, when she sees all your beer bellied, balding friends hanging around you, shes gonna know.

And if you say U like The Police, and she says, shes afraid of them, then you got problems.

First of all, I wouldnt want to be friends with people my age that don't look young. So I would never waste my time around balding and beer-bellied friends. However guys under 30 have beer bellies. I have some stage 3 balding but will cover the stuff up or its grown out to where its not as noticeable. and plan to save my hair at some point.

What's second of all?

oh so all your friends must look young, otherwise you wont be friends with them, gotcha.

Wow. Shallow as fuck.

I'm out of this thread.

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How is it shallow? I never got to have friends in my 20s? And in no way am I hanging out with those losers that get in trouble a lot and get involved in situations that I would be embarrassed in. Alos I'd like to hang with a guy thats like a brother, where you can wank with(they do it less face it). Also, those really professional types that take care of themselves wouldnt want something to do with someone who has yet to move up the ladder.

You just said you'd not be FRIENDS with someone if they had a beer-belly or were balding (which YOU are balding, you hypocrite!).

My rodeo partner is balding - so he shaved his head bald. But - to this day, if I needed him to be here tomorrow - he WOULD BE. If I needed $10k, he'd mortgage his home to help me if I needed it that badly. I needed ANYTHING, all I have to do is ask - and vice versa. I'd take a bullet for that man. Just because he's balding - you'd not be friends with him at all, unless he fucking went all-in with Rogaine? Really?

I have other friends that have gained some weight and need to lose 20lbs in the gut. I didn't tell them to hit the gym in order to continue being my friend.

Dude...

Seriously, I think you're just taking a piss. NOBODY would really defend being that shallow on purpose.

Ha Ha... funny joke...


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just tell the truth. lies have short legs.

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Well if he shaved his head thats different but don't show a horseshoe. A receding hairline is fine. I am not that bald, I can see a lot of hair on me. I am thinning at the top and do have a rh, but I don't think its bad enough to a certain point yet where its unsalvageable at least i hope not. As far as overweight is concerned, this friend in Texas is rather huge. It wouldnt bother me unless it made me unlikeable to other guys, ones that like having fun and dating girls. But I have a college mind so thats what this whole thing is. I'm upset that I can't go to college next semester because I don't have my GED, it bothers me when I see all these young guys on my fb in their early 20s talking about school and these guys because they go to school they get hookups, I see it in the pictures attractive women too. Its all about how my mindset is, maybe when I'm over it I'll hang out with older people but right now I'm too concerned with my image. I can have them as a friend but someone to party with? Idk

Yeh, not being able to get youger girls must suck. There soft, bubley and innocent. but remember, when one door closes, another one opens. Your 30, so 40+ girls are more readily avaibl to you than someone who is younger. Loosing the young ones for the older ones sound shit, but chicks in that age range are seriously more dtf; fact.

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Take care man.

All good things...


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