So my gf accepted an offer to work on the east coast. It's a really nice job, a considerable step up for her. We broke up some time ago because she was in the midwest, and I started dating other people. But she eventually wanted to get back together and whenever she came back to our home town on the west coast, we'd always spend time. Her family, too. Through talking everyday and back and forth visits (and secks), we got back together.

The ideal situation was to find her a job on the west coast, but that just didn't happen. So along with discussing the possibility of her not going (not a likely one), I've also mentioned the possibility of me finding a job on the east coast.

I don't know any of you personally and you don't know me, but what would you do? If somebody you cared about wanted to move to pursue their dream job, would you let them go?

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

i been living in canada for 12 years, i had alot of friends, went clubbing, bars, camping even skiing and i left the country for 3.5 years and i went to Dubai for a job. when i came back everything changed. those people who i hanged out with alot of them had to work and had no time to hang out and some of them left the country. People moved on and it pissed me off because my life was perfect and i wanted everything to stay as the same before i left . what i realized was that thats how life is..everything changes

Bro i know u love her and all but you have to know people move on and you should to. its her dream job and she knows she will be very happy there rather than to be in the midwest. let her go man.