So I went on a third date with this girl. First date was standard fare, no k close. Second date, k close, went really well. Third date alot kino, a little making out, and more comfort.

But she is an awkward person. She is the tree hugger type. She futured me twice this date, playfully hit me, dirtied up my hands with dirt (we were outside), dusted off my shirt when I had something on it, ect.

But what bothers me is that she said I am a touchy person, she has said I'm bossy (to which I agree or don't respond to, the dates are relatively short (like two hours), and most importantly she doesn't really walk close to me or sit close to me.

Another thing is, she kinda gets scared when I ask her to come to my house (I've tried to make plans late), and this was the first date that I actually drove with her in the car.

I have come off so confident (almost too confident...she said on the second date she "won't say I wouldn't like to see you in a speedo, but I don't want to feed your ego"). She says she has heard people talking about me obsessed. Her friend called me cute. She is a good deal younger then me. Everything is there.

I want to ask her to come over to "watch a movie" but will she read into this too much? She has a habit of doing that. I just want to F-close and be done with it so I don't get attached.

Youre doing absolutely fine. Stay non-reactive to the stuff she says. It's not a bog deal. Deep inside she finds it fucking attractive.

She will probably read into that stuff. Advice that RR gave me is the next time you go on a date, make sure it's close to your house. Then once you meet before the date starts, find an excuse to quickly stop by your place (you forgot your phone or something) and tell her to come along quickly. Make no moves on her, just get whatever you forgot. Show her around, give her a quick tour. She now feels your place is safe and has established some comfort there. Then proceed onto your date as usual and make your moves. This should increase your chances of getting her back at the end of the date.

Alternatively you could also do it the other way round. Somehow get to her place, as she is at home there.

Good luck.