Hi, there's this hot bar maid, that I really want to game at a bar near me. I was there tonight, and I only went for strong eye contact and said nothing. But this has always bugged me, "how do you game a bar maid?" The bar's never too busy so getting her to stop to talk to me, should be fairly easy. I may go back in the day though, to make things easier. Any advice, or anyone who's done this?

P.S the bar isn't a regular so I don't mind fucking it up and losing out.

Worked for me. Didnt fully close the deal, but got the number and won the 5 beer bet.
If you are interested than read:

I would go with playful smile and say:
-Hey I desperately need a female opinion. Recently I've met this barmaid, and she is absolutely gorgeous, but she doesn't seem to notice me. Any idea how can I make her interested?

she says something bout hudge tips say:
-no, I think she is not like that -deep and playful look at her eyes -she has this thing in her eyes u know, this kind of passion for life... (ore some romantic text)", and pause till she smiles or even giggles. Than just keep the conversation interesting but be prepared for many interruptions.

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Or u can say: i bet u have a great smile and wink she would probably smile back and you're in or she won't and u won't have to waste ur time

Out of curiosity, did you do this at the bar while on your own? Or were you with some friends?

At st. Patric's day we went with friends to the club. I saw the barmaid. Made a bet with friends, they went to couch, I went the barmaid, they tried not to look.

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A friend of mine picked up barmaid and fucked her within a week. A devastating natural. He had the commonality of being russian, but in the end I'm sure he just went up to her and had a conversation with her. Quite a normal one.

And You are impressed because he banged a barmaid, or he banged in the weak? To get to bang woman can take from several minutes to several hours. week is not THAT impressive.
Barmaid is like bigger challenge than the "normal girl"?
O_0 Its good i didn't know that (XD)
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Hi am pole. What is the "russian commonality"? But what is so strange about banging barmaid in a weak. Are there like some classes of woman that are given the "U shall not pass" badge? Woman are all the same, only their friends can be bitchy.

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nice .. well put my friend well put!

It was more of a "how do you game someone while they're working" kind of thing. But I've definitely got a few ideas from this thread so will try it out, I think the testing for compliance will be the hardest because I will be seated/standing in one place so it's making sure I hook the conversation enough so she comes back to talk - that could be embarrassing if she goes to stand the other end!

DUDE!!
U must have read The Game.
There was the only one post from a PUA called Zan. Its very easy to find. I think You will find all that you need to game workers at work.

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Dude, you must first fully acknowledge that she probably gets hit on often. You have PUA knowledge so go in with that confidence. Be a little different. Instead of asking the same old questions like "so how long do you work here?" actually ask her something interesting, or if you get the vibe she can handle a tease, tease her. Cold read her, no one does that.

Don't try to impress or anything. Get her first name. When she goes off to serve other customers, don't just wait for her. Engage other people.

There is some good advice here: http://www.puatraining.com/blog/how-to- ... yons-video

Thanks for the video, it's got some good tips. It's quite a long game he's suggesting there, which I didn't expect.

I love that line he uses "I can't believe you left me with those weirdos, I was relying on you to save me there." It's great how it separates you from everyone and you empathise her situation and get into her frame of mind. I will definitely give this a try at some point.