hey this is more of a philosophical question.

I noticed that perhaps most of the people that meet each other do it the ''easy way''
using dating websites or via their social circle or workplace or visiting common courses.

I know its easy because with most of the girls I dated i used to meet them that way. But in the back of my mind I think that this kind of puts in position of not having much choice and depending on your luck to meet with cool women. Correct me if I'm wrong but I think that real men should be able to meet women whenever they want, not just when their friends introduce them to other women (although its OK when it happens.)

So give me your opinions of what are probably the hardest things to do when it comes to area of dating.

It is a cold approach, a phone close, opening while alone, opening mixed groups, etc.

I like challenges and I think that in order to grow and gain better skills we should experiment with novel and kind of uncomfortable experiences.

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Club game. It is also my favourite because its funn. But its the hardest. Girls

eagoes are pumped up, thers a lot of cockblocking, loud music. The same girl that

rejects you tonight would be happy to meet with you if you approached her at 2.

pm. when she is going to the bakery.

Its all mental. The club may be the easiest for some people, cold approaches may be the easiest for other people, the social circle may be the easiest for others. Its all depends on where your comfort zone is. I hate dating through social circles because people gossip and if things don't work out then everyone knows your shit. When you are solid mentally you should be able to do them all

difficulty
1.The state or condition of being difficult

it is subjective to your state of mind

the most common sticking points that come up time and time again all over these forums seem to be:
facing the approach, facing rejection (overall overcomming being judged negatively *the need for approval*)

The most difficult thing to do IMO is to control your emotions into not getting to much involved.

cheers

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Daygame mixed sets.

Like pumping ton said its different for everyone
I'm underage for bar/club game (USA) so my #1 difficulty is actually FINDING women to game that are my age (seriously... I feel I gotta wait until Im 21 till I can find girls to game), I maybe meet 2-3 girls in a very good week that are my age
But that's not a problem for a lot of other people, sometimes it's approach anxiety, sometime its running out of things to say, or maybe getting the number.
Those are the popular ones I know, but there's no 'most difficult thing' that's the same for everyone

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