Okay this could go in a number of forums so hope this is the right place.

Went on a date last Wednesday with a girl I met online. Now, I thought it went moderately okay. When we met she text saying she was early, but I was already there out of site around the corner. So I rang her and teased her saying I wasn't going to make it. She sounded a bit miffed but then I appeared we hugged and went on to the bar. Conversation was great. But I only think I reached surface level with her. I don't think there was a deep connection. Any tips on making a deep connection? She did open up about how she was bullied in school though and how her brother has a disability. Surely she wouldn't tell just anyone she has just met that? We have loads in common and I made her laugh throughout the night. there was never a dull moment.

She doesn't drink alcohol so was on fruit smoothies all night. Maybe I should have had the same instead of beer?

I tried to use kino throughout the night but due to the way she was sitting on the chair I found it a little diffucult but I did manage some. She didn't reciprocate at all though. IOD?

Afterwards I walked her home (which I regretted becuase it was freaking miles ha) and she invited me in. We chatted for a bit then I had to leave to get my train. We hugged and kissed on the cheek. She said let's deff do it again sometime and said to text when I get on the train.

I did and she didn't reply until the next morning. I hit her back in the evening but that was the last I heard from her (Thursday evening). Now before this we'd be chatting throughout the day via text and facebook but now she seems cold. I in no way acted needy.

I think I'm going to hit her up on Sunday night but don't really know what to say. Should I just carry on from the flirty facebook messages we used to send? Was not kissing her my big downfall? Just want to build up the momenteum again before I invite her along to do something where drinks aren't involved (theme park, zoo or crazy golf etc).

thanks for any advice

A woman invited you into her home and you didn't sleep with her? You didn't even kiss her? What were you waiting on, the Bat Signal?

Asking you to come inside is about as big a green light as a woman can give, and the fact that you did nothing with it could lead a girl to believe you're not really interested ... which in turn leads to her backward-rationalizing that she's not interested.

Hence, the situation you find yourself in now - one I hope you'll avoid in the future.

Your boy,
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The Fact a woman opened up to you after you met her online is kinda a good thing. If you seek deeper connection, don't do it with a USB port. Use it with patience and understanding and before you know it, she'll be ranting so much about her personal life that you'll NEVER want to hear more about it. But the good part is, IF you get that far, you get to release it all out on angry hate sex!

::Information coming from a dude who's relationship started out the same way::

The Fact a woman opened up to you after you met her online is kinda a good thing. If you seek deeper connection, don't do it with a USB port. Use it with patience and understanding and before you know it, she'll be ranting so much about her personal life that you'll NEVER want to hear more about it. But the good part is, IF you get that far, you get to release it all out on angry hate sex!

::Information coming from a dude who's relationship started out the same way::

Man, I gotta agree with that other guy. A woman invites you into her home, you don't even wait til the door's closed before your pants are off, bro. That shit's green lightin all over the place and you gotta get on it and hit it while its hot. Well, maybe wait until the door's closed. Don't want the neighbors seeing you gettin it on with dat hot bitch rite?? Or DO you? You decide, stud.

No, but seriously. Next time, if she invites you in, she's inviting you IN, if you know what I mean. Ba-bam! Good luck bro.

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I know I knowww. There was no way we was going to have sex. Not after the first ever date anyway. She did invite me in though and I should have at least kissed her. I fucked up.

Just hope it's salvageable

Thanks for the replies though!