Hi everyone,

A bit of background...
My gf and I are both 23 and have enjoyed multiple partners. She enjoys women to parade with in front of me, and we have been involved in two separate 3some encounters through mutual friends.

What we are struggling with is how do we pickup girls to have sex with together that are strangers?

It is particularly difficult to know which girls would be up for a 3some.

Your help would be much appreciated!

KK

Typically every time this has happened to me SHE pulled in the extra, I understand why as well, they need to have a spark-connection, last time was at a bar/grill I opened the bartender, a hot busty blond. she took it from there....complementing her, asking direct sexual questions, asking what she thought of ME, this girl was not even Bi, asked her if she was ever curious, then invited her to join us for a drink, then like any other pull, Kino (mostly from her) ...drinks at my place...TaDa 3 some!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Okay, here are all the ways that my girlfriend and I have found other girls to hook up with:

1) My girlfriend tried to meet platonic female friends online via craigslist. She met a girl for coffee and immediately liked her. My girlfriend told this girl about our relationship and seriously talked me up. Then, my girlfriend invited us both out for drinks and told me to flirt with her. Easy enough.

2) Went to a beach and befriended some college-aged kids who were by us. We ended up making plans to go drinking with them later that evening. They were really cool and we all got very drunk. At some point, details of our relationship spilled out and one of the girls got very interested. The girl pulled my girlfriend aside and asked her a lot of questions.. then they started making out. It was pretty much a done deal after that. All I had to do was not screw it up.

3) We had a threesome with another guy who was exceptionally good with women. He basically referred us to every girl in his social group and it has yielded us SEVERAL threesomes with cute girls (with more to come). We call this "referral game" (I wrote a post about it here: open-relationships-amp-referral-game-an ... 40407.html). Building a poly-friendly social group is BY-FAR the easiest way to find consistent threesomes.

The common themes among all these is that we flaunt our open-style relationship. The people who are interested in getting in on the action will be intrigued and will ask a lot of questions. Add a little bit of alcohol to the mix, then, at the end of the night suggest an after-party at your place (or something like that).

It's important for your girlfriend to let the other girls know that it's very socially acceptable and that she's just as much into it as you are. Girls trust other girls; they don't trust guys.

Anyway, I hope some of that was helpful.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

Exactly, my experiences have been very similar. The girlfriend does most of the flirting. I'm usually there to make sure everyone is feeling good (i.e. lots of kino for everyone) and to handle the logistics.

-Wolf

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Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html

That's really great advice everyone, thanks.

We have been trying to day game (girl with amazing breast waiting for her flight, trade fairs and conferences etc) and it's been difficult to both select and escalate in those environments.
Are those very low success avenues?

We will try more of the bar scene and see how that goes.
Should I be opening, or her, or both at the same time?

Referral game also sounds like a viable option. However our social network we have currently is not very conducive and open minded to this. Will reach out to some of our kinkier friends and see...

As much as I hate to say this.....booze seems to be the best lube for a 3some!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.