This might be a weird post as this is opposite to what APA does I guess.

Anyway I've had this friend (female) for about 5-6 years. When I met her in college I really fancied her but never made a move due to being shy and she told me she fancied my friend. However she was shy, lonely and bullied. By this point I had grown confidence and helped her thru her crap. Even stood up for her when the bullies were just going way over the top with it.

Anyway recently (about last year onwards) Shes been acting very differently with me and its been getting stranger. Here some of the weird shit that has happened

Between now and a year ago:

Whenever we are too drunk together we get kissing. At one point I had a gf (dont remember that night) and my other friend had to pull us off of each other.

Even at the point of having a girlfriend she has come round my house and slept in the same bed.

Calls me when she is upset/needs cheering up.

Between now and 2 months ago:

She rang me when she was too smashed with her girlfriends (shes alot more confident/outgoing these days, no bullies) who had abandoned her for some guys. It was normal till she was like "I just wanted to ring the one person in the world who would be able to cheer me up"

We also went to a gig together then just me and her out clubbing afterwards. Then she slept in my bed in just her underwear.

This is the one that has weirded me out. I was just chiling at mine at 2am and I got a phonecall from her. She wanted to come round and get drunk. She came around, pissed about, got drunk. She started talking about how shes changed and she likes her body now but thinks her face lets her down. I told her that her face is one of her best qualities and she shoudn't let any1 else tell her different.

She got all "cutesy" and awwish about it. Moments later she started moaning she was cold so I got her a blanket...then we just kind of cuddled, we even moved upstairs to the bed and cuddled again. I woke up and just thought it was a really weird feeling.

So basically its been 5-6 years, way too long to suddenly have sex with her. I'm kinda hoping i'm friendzoned cos if not I should back off a bit?

What do you want out of this relationship? Do you want to stay friends or fuck her? If you wanted to fuck her you may have missed your chance. She was giving you loads of signals, and she may be acting cold because you didn't make a move.

If you want to stay friends tell her that.