Take her off your mind as soon as you get in the club, if you're being needy she can tell that right off the back. then game the venue and get some preselection going on (adam lyons hits on the ugliest to hottest chicks, if the hottest girls see you're talking to everyone in the club but them theyl come right to you, so will the chick u like), ppl want what they cant have.
After a while of talking to everyone in the club if i see someone hiiting on one of the girls i brought, or someone else that I can tell the girl doesnt like (body language) i pretty much just walk up to the girl, take them by their hand and say "hey, im back" and continue walking with them. the facial expressions on the guys faces are funny as shit!!! They're just like wtf, and it confuses them because they don't know if your her bf, etc. so you basically just leave them at a curiosity hook. From that point if they're really curious, they'll follow and try to find out what was up (the chase begins, dun dun dunn!). From there... just AMOG >>
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uLhEAFk7CA8