i like a girl. she s quite chubby. keeps mentoning it to me many times. i v e said she luks cute many times. how else can i respond to her ? does she do this so that she can fish out compliments from me ? do i need to say she looks gud everytime she says that ?

thanks .

call her out on it. "why do you keep saying it "
she might be sincerely looking for reassurance that you like her, or it might be self-sabotaging: "I keep telling him so eventually he will realize I am an ugly fattie and will break up with me"
for a while, my GF used to point me at any hot girl on the street. the first few times I played along, acting as if those girls were the hottest shit in town. after a few more tries, I reassured her that I liked her and thought she was hot. then in the end when neither thing stopped the behavior, I called her out on it "this is sick. why do you do that?" and she said it's a self-sabotage where she subconsciously wants me to find other girls hotter than her, so it will fulfill her prophecy of not being worthy enough. then I asked her what I should do as a reaction. she wanted me to call her out on it, like I had done. after that day, she stopped.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

You know, I like hot women, be it chubby ones too. What I don't like - skinny girls. I like when there's something to grab and nice woman hips, ass and waist form a god-damn-view for me.

To have the girl feel sexy you must you what? talking? no. Sex? Yes.
She doesn't feel sexual - sex is the cure. If you actually like her that much and she's not fat for you even if she weights a million stars then fuck her so superhot like a pornstar without nastyness. Kiss all of her body, touch her, fuck her, bite her and repeat for every part of her body.

You see - once she will see that you get hard and your eyes are rocking from her nude body, she will feel sexy.

thanks guys . some nice points .

"Well if you don't like the way you look, why don't you do something about it?"

If you two are dating and not officially anything, you can get away with asking that.

You're not telling her she's a cow and you're not coddling her, either.

We all know that person who says, "I'd eat those, but I'm fat enough lol". They get reassured by orbiters around them and they eat it anyway!

Personally, I'd rather bite the bullet and risk her being temporarily mad at me than hear the passive aggressive fat comments forever.

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"Let me ask you something. If the rule you followed brought you to this, of what use was the rule?"

Jones, it's a logical explanation - you don't like it you fix it. But one big issue - she's a woman. And yet she has though the same thoughts and heared the same bullshit a million times.

And strange thing is that it may look like it's a low self-confident person, however practice proved wrong. Thos whinny girls are actually most passionated however only when they're super happy.