A few days ago, I had the best sex Ive ever had and probably will have for a while. It was with an actress/dancer, tightest body, best ass Ive ever seen and a bit of a freak. We did it in the bathroom cubicle and she was so flexible.

Now after that the next day we couldnt do it because we were with her friends smoking and then I had to leave her city (Im travelling). But now I cannot stop thinking about her its driving me crazy. I want to tell her its the best sex but not sure what that will achieve. How can I get over his girl?

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Have you ever seen clips of when Barry Sanders scored a touchdown after one of his ankle-breaking, twisting, spinning 50 yard TD runs?

His motto was act-like-you've-been-here-before and while the entire stadium is on it's feet screaming, his team is going crazy, the announcers in the booth are nearly speechless, he casually walks over to the referee and hands him the football like it's nothing.

It's nothing. You'll have more hot sex. You'll have hotter sex, believe it or not.

Yes, do not tell her that.
You're not impressed.
You're having such or better sex all the time.

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A guy I met in my travels once said to me that theres two types of girls he would never date. Actresses and psychologists. I now know why. You can never figure out what they are truly thinking or feel and usually you will get played.

She knows alot more than what shes told me, she almost never breaks eye contact and when we look at each other too long she will say what? With this girl theres no such thing as shutting up shes not stupid, normally convos I have with girls are 90/10 dominated by them unless they are shy. But with her its 50/50. I may see this girl again as shes promised to visit my country someday but shes going on tour so who knows when...sigh. I am considering flying back to her city and seeing her one more time before I go home but I know it would be 50/50. She decides everything spontaneously in the moment living minute by minute. Which also drives me crazy..is it worth the gamble...

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In Keith Richards autobiography he claims to have never taken more than one line of cocaine because there isnt any point in chasing that first high.

Just be happy it happened, its not worth the gamble.

....Let them tell YOU it was the best sex THEY ever had...

That's your goal.



RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

This ^

hehehe, i do like this.

BUT... the rest of you are suggesting that he needs to act like he knows everything and is the shit. THe problem here is the 'acting', 'pretending'.

Dude, if that was the best sex you have ever had, tell her. I think its a good compliment. People here seem to be afraid that if you tell her, she is going to look at you like you are a piece of shit, or that it is 'lowering your value' in such a dramatic way, she will never look at you again. That is just bullocks. Although, telling her will not really achieve anything else but make her feel good the instance you tell her.

There is a little catch though, but it doesnt make much difference if you say it or dont say it. Dont get caught in this. Dont get emotionally hooked on this feeling. I know you feel like travelling half the world to see her again... but i wouldnt do that. Make sure that you stay independent, that you find a way to control this urge to act on impuls.

What i am trying to say, and i hope this way will be more clear: It should be like this: You tell her it was the best sex ever, but you dont care if you have it once more or not. You would be glad to bang her again, but if you cant, meh, its al the same. Its like a bit beyond indifference, its like not being emotionally involved.

If you can let go at any time, you can say anything you want. Letting go stings, but always think of the next thing that might come along. How to get over this girl? By looking for the next best thing. Cherish the moments you had, if you learned anything, it might be a good idea apply it in your next encounter.

cheers

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Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

LD has it right. The whole community seems to be bitching around "staying cool" not "lowering your value". Bullfuck. The lower the value the more you think about how to save it.

I agree with LD that you can say it to her or you can not, however do not become dependent on her. I agree with "cherish those moments" too! We can't control other people and so if you have had the most mindblowing sex with her, tell her that and leave it as it is. She's the one which gave you awesome sensations so why not to make her feel good with your tongue just for a moment. Once ?

Gentlemen.....

It's simple.

I glossed over it, as if it were a given... and LD dropped hard-reality when I read this "BUT... the rest of you are suggesting that he needs to act like he knows everything and is the shit. The problem here is the 'acting', 'pretending'."


To the novices - what does that mean?

LEARN HOW TO FUCK.

I mean that sincerely and seriously. LEARN. we PUAs are a smart group. We read well, we cold-read well, we have built up our own self-worth in great ways... So, why wouldn't we train to fuck just like we train to pick up a woman?

I've read tantric breathing practices (learned to stop my orgasm). I read the Lesbian Kama Sutra (Learned how to make a woman squirt with my fingers). I listened to Sam Kinneson's "Lick the alphabet" to start eating pussy initially - now I feel her body move when I lick certain ways, and I go from there... I simply learned HOW to fuck...

And when you KNOW - your own self-confidence is fucking scary!


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Do you have any specific books you recommend? (Apart from the one already listed).

You should not look at sex like gift from her to you. So it is impossible that she GAVE you the best sex ever.

If you MUST compliment her on the experience, say something like "I think our sexually chemistery is great!"

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