| So I know this christian girl I met at 2/3 events, so we know each other in some detail, and I would consider us "friends in faith". However since I've known her, she has slipped into a couple of relationships almost right in front of me and that has made things somewhat awkward (yes if you hadn't guessed I'm a total AFC, with zero past relationships and so hopefully you can see why that topic was awkward and somewhat scary for me).
Funny thing is that I've spoken to her in a close-ish way more than I think I speak with any other girls (yep that's the painful truth), but have absolutely no idea whether this girl is a prospect for a relationship.
At the social events, when she has been talking to other boys (e.g. ex boyfriends), I have either been well away, or standing helplessly waiting for their conversation to end, (a bit like Neil's experience with the woman called Elonova in the Game). When I had a big chance to potentially flirt with her, we start talking like normal friends do, and we are far from hitting it off, we've had a lot of deep conversation, but in mainly a negativish way.
Thing is she barely ever talks to me online, and usually it is me "initiating" the conversation, I get a vibe from her that she is keeping conversation for the sake of it, and that there is other things on her agenda.
So, what do I do? Use pua material to increase her chances of gaining a new attraction to me? Not worry about her and game other girls? Other things such as talking to her about relationships & her ideal partner.
Great to hear from any input you have.
Snakebite out.
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CHAT