I know lots of people will say it's all about game, but let's be honest. Looks really do count. At least they help.

Here's the deal... How can I tell what a girl would rate me (like we do hb7, etc...)? But I do not want to put my pic up here, sorta embarassing if anyone I knew would see.

Yeah. I guess I'm feelin a bit shallow and insecure.


I can say this. I'm 42 yrs old but people (male and female) usually think I'm low to mid 30's.

There is a website "Rate my Pic" or something along those lines where you can post a pic and random people will rate you. Doing that would be a mistake IMHO, you need to view yourself as the best looking person you are and always see yourself that way!!!

Until you have a high image of yourself, others will view you low as also!

Peace...

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Yea bro, you gotta just go with the flow. Nobody actually KNOWS exactly how attractive they are, you just gotta have an idea. Like how do certain women act toward you, at first, before they get a sense of your confidence level. The fact that you are told you look almost a decade younger is a big up to you. But i know youve heard this a whole lot but as long a you are decent looking and you stay fresh, your confidence and game WILL make or break your sucess with the ladies.

Good luck man

Well if I'm answering the question directly - look in a mirror and look at photos of yourself. Most people think they're better looking in the mirror than they actually are (something to do with the reflection playing tricks and the fact that when you're looking at yourself in the mirror you probably try to look good), and most people also think they look worse in photos than other people think they do (because you're more used to seeing your reflected and therefore reverse image in a mirror than you are seeing you from the front like in a picture).

So in terms of very general how-good-looking-you-are, you'll be somewhere in between those two really.

However, trying to make it exact or use a scale is fairly pointless. Some girls might be into your type whilst others aren't. It's like girls - I might rate one an 8 and you'd only rate her a 6.

Also - what's the point in knowing? You can't really do a lot about your looks. If you 'find out' that you're an ugly mother fucker, then that's not going to do you any good at all. And if you find out you're really quite handsome, then it might give you more confidence but at the same time, it could make you arrogant or mean that you stop working on your inner game and therefore struggle to spark an interest in a woman past the initial attraction.

My advice? Stop caring about your looks. Worry about looking YOUR BEST. That's important. But that's more to do with looking like you take care of yourself and aren't a lazy slob. Inner game is far more important for most people.