So here is the thing, there's this girl, hb 9 that has a boyfriend. I meat her once when she was with him, so I don't really now how to go from there.

I'd arrange a date trough a friend, but she has 2 weeks till her finals so probably won't go out.

Extra Info:

I'm 19
HB9 - 19 years old
BF- 17 years old

They have kind of a shitty relationship. They have been over 1 and a half years together, broke up 6/7 times. But she is kind of nuts about him, and is trying not to see the shit in there relationship.

I want to end up with her and as quick as possible, so pleas help out.

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The knowledge that books have to offer are special and unique, but life does not happen in it. So read to get knowledge and then use it in real life, otherwise your knowledge is a wast.

I want my neighbor's wife... but she has a husband.

Dude, is this chick in to you at all?

From what you've written, she sounds like some random hot piece that has a boyfriend, and she's shown no interest; which means don't waste time with her and move on to another woman.


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I know for sure, he told it to my bf/fuckfriend.

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The knowledge that books have to offer are special and unique, but life does not happen in it. So read to get knowledge and then use it in real life, otherwise your knowledge is a wast.

I may get slammed here on this but I'm going ahead anyway!

When the post starts out with "There's this ONE girl" and I got to have HER! it's just not true. you are young. There are literally millions of HB9s out there waiting to fuck your brains out! Many in your school, thousands in your town. But some how we always want that one girl.

But back on topic. The only way to take a girl from her chosen mate, is to be a better mating choice to HER.

So focusing on the fact she has a BF will get you nowhere! You must build attraction and comfort in her just as you would with any other girl. Completely dismissing the fact that she has a BF. If she brings it up just blow it off, like that is not now or ever going to be your concern.

It's likely the reason she stays is BECAUSE he is an asshole, and has her on an emotional roller coaster, feeding her need for drama and turmoil.

Telling her she should leave him because of this will only strengthen her desire to stay. Reverse this thought process by telling her they will likely get married some day, she will spend the rest of her life with him, and that's cool with you. Tell her many young relations ships stand the test of time, with out ever having been able to have any other experiences, simply because they will know nothing else.

If it sounds like a lot more work to steal someone else's girl, than just going for a different one, THAT'S BECAUSE IT IS!

Not sure if you'll get what I'm saying, but I had fun saying it!

Good Luck!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Heywood,

I think you make some good points but do you mind elaborating on why telling her to leave would make her stay? And why talking about them getting married will work in your favor.

Subliminal implanting. Women want what they perceive as off-limits. Additionally, walking her down the road to the alter may scare the fuck out of her and make her realize it's JUST dating - not 'that serious'...

Heywood's another old bull in the pasture... I feel him.


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Basically if you say "He is an Asshole and you should leave him" she will instinctively defend him because by criticizing him, you are by default criticizing her! If you tell her how well he must treat her and they they make the perfect couple and will get married and have lots of kids together you take the focus off of him and place it on her. She has to be able to visualize "herself" in the married with kids role!

Reverse psycology is the basic term for this!

Peace...

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All girl's are Freaks...It is your job to bring it out in them! - Crypto

You need to stop bending over and letting her ass fuck your brain! - Heywood

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go