So. A few weeks ago I met a beatiful girl at the bar I work at. We've had some good times together, but the problem is her friend - also my cousin.

My cousin and this girl is obviously really good friends. It wasn't until last night though that she found out about me and her. I was going to meet her out on town, we were both at parties. But then my cousin at the same party as this girl saw a text message from me, and suddenly she doesn't wanna meet me. I don't know what my cousin said. But while they were together she didn't want to meet me. She texted and called me as soon as she got home though.

How do I get around this? How do I tell this girl its okay even though her friend doesn't want her to? Should I tell her we should keep it a secret?


Thx for any help

oooo this one is a toughy... Family over a girl... for the most part the cousin hold alot of influncese to that girl and as of right now your biggest obsticale but if you and that girl have a connection and at that point where you 2 have to keep it a seceret. might as well let it be known. Your cousin has no right to come in between you and her, Yeah they are good friend but if her friend likes you, and you like her. she should respect that and learn to accept that. now its the matter of , if that girl is willing to put up her friendship over you or your cousin.

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