Guys as the title reads can someone please explain to me the differnce.. like when mysteries says ' you dress her up but you can take her anywhere' I used to think its a neg but not to sure now..Also is a backhanded compliment the same as push pull??

Thinking of routines and terms in pick up will make it much harder to pick up girls. You might have one or 2 success stories but it will be difficult and it wont feel like a part of you so just forget about negs and other such terms and just be yourself when your with a girl. Girls can sniff routines from miles away unless you can act very very good.

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Negs: I don't remember any since I don't use them, but your basically insulting a girl to raise your value. The goal is to break rapport with negs.


Tease: This is what I use. Is basically shit talking to the girl in a fun friendly way. Is not like neg which break rapports, instead, it builds rapport and comfort. Think about it, you don't tease your boss, strangers, or college professor right? And as a result, there is no or very little comfort there. But you do tease your friends, and these are the people who your really comfortable with and you can be yourself around. This is what teasing girls does. Starts building comfort.

Not a tease:
- Calling a fat girl a fat ass
- making fun of her race, religion
- Making fun of her job if she has a shady job like a cashier.

Actual tease:
-Giving her a funny nick name
.-Making fun of her goofy cell phone case.
-calling her out on a game you guys played recently in order to do it again.

Negs are playful...always playful according to Mystery Archives.

I never used them and I personally tell guys to sway away from Mystery Method as it is largely useless (but the principles are good...minus active disinterest, microcalibration, roleplaying/conspiracy, intermittent rewarding) which is pretty much 95% useless in terms of OUTER game.

neg is just a specific form of teasing, a neg is a false-disqualifer, anything that disqualifys you as a potential suitor, usually in the form of a backhanded compliment (it is something that indicates you are not thinking of her from a sexual frame)

they are to be used when girls are getting testy (being rude), or won't give you attention (sets frame that they are not higher social value, if they have a big ego, you will get their attention and can re-frame), negs can also be used to dis-arm obsticles, as well as condition girls through qualification, it is a form of rapport break

''oh wow, you're so cute, just like an adorable little sister''

''wow, at least you got a good body''

''don't worry, you are hot, but im super gay... like flaming''

''ahhh you're soo cool, but we could never get along''

^ negs

teasing is just a form of breaking rapport, and negs are a very specific form of teasing, teasing simply adds some tension and can break the rapport when things are getting to comfortable for some ammusement

From my experience, teasing actually builds rapport instead of breaking it.