Probably my one real fear when I'm talking to a girl at public place or a bar and things are going but then there's some asshole who will literally interrupt the conversation, ignore everything you say and talk directly to your approach. Usually the girl doesn't know what to do so she just keeps talking to the guy who's deliberately ignoring you and trying to click you out. It's almost like this unspoken "hey, let's take the conversation away from this guy. Wink wink it'll be fun, you didn't need that 0 bothering you. Lets establish rapport by leaving the the other dude out of our new 'fake higher status' convo." Fuck those motherfuckers. Their whole game is based on waiting in on, and then shitting on top of other guys' built rapport just to establish their fake dominance. Back when I was younger and I didn't have the confidence and the conversation wasn't going good, there would always be some guy, who could ahem "step in and save the day". This is not the same thing. These are guys who try and make it look like your conversation is wimpy when it's going perfectly alright and just bump in on it to try and establish their "dominance". I don't even know what my options are. I mean "knock the motherfucker out and get kicked out of the bar"? Make yourself look like a dork by going "ahem excuuuse me" (that never works and only makes it worse). Use the old cliched "hey buddy this is an AB conversation why don't you C your way out?". Make your way out of an already very awkward situation and move on to something else and try and draw as little attention to it as humanly possible? I mean what

This doesn't happen to me that much as I'm fairly large and I dont seem like the kind of guy that would tolerate it. The first thing you need to do is assess what it is about your body language that is allowing alpha males to assume you are beta by just watching you talk, making them feel comfortable moving in on your target.

Still this does occasionally happen to me and here are my tips.

1. Very seldom will a guy try to Amog you or Alpha you without probing you first with the softsell. I.e "are you two going out?" "what are you guys up to?" ...other random convo starter
your first line of defense is not to let him get a foothold. Make it clear to him before you get to the uncomfortable part that you posted here, that you are not the kind of guy who expects other higher status males to interrupt your convo with woman.

2. Physically move the girl away from the guy who he is a problem then eliminate his status.. "hey come over here I want to show you something"... "sorry that guys really creepy I see him here chatting up disgusting fat chicks all the time"

3. Most important one: Don't take girls to places where other guys are likely to do this shit. So instead of bars go to lounges where a 3rd party approach isn't normal.

Just like regular bully's these guys are social bully's that take advantage of the weak, figure out what is making you appear so weak and eliminate it.

Yeah right. I think you're right. I think one part of it is, if she was really interested in you, she'd find a way out of the conversation with the other guy. So there's probably something I'm missing. I'm leaving open space for some guy to come in and start that mess. 2. If I was close in enough, he'd look like a douche shoving himself into an obviously 1:1 conversation. Noted

This.

This is a logical assumption, unfortunately its mostly incorrect. A normal attractive girl is more than happy to see two males engage in a social dominance ritual on her behalf, also she would rather get rid of the weak new male than stick with him out of some sense of loyalty if he cant even handle his shit at a bar.

Perhaps next time when you talk to a girl, you should move her to a place which is more private that others can't interrupt you guys.

Lock in to that corner and have the girl face to you so she won't see any guy coming.

If a guy is coming to your way, just lead the girl away (before that guy had a chance to interrupt you guys).

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