Hey there,
I met this hb who recently came to US.For some reason I see her everyday now we have now mutual friends.
I had a crash on her(quite AFC).She showed me interest too.But she started seeing someone. I asked her out she gave me excuses and after while since I had crush on her I told her later I like her and She said she doesn't have any feeling for me.
Anyways it was not good moment since I think I pushed her and I was really nice but she left me during the conversation.
Anyway,I texted her not to tell anybody about what I told her.However,She told my fiends she is not comfortable around me and told all of the things I told her to my friends.I don't know why she told my friends either she was intimated or she is just an @sshole.
One of my friends told me about what she said, I completely denied everything and I said she completely misunderstood what I said. Since her english is not very good.
Since I know some other guys hit on her too,now she thinks she is the shit and , I think I completely boost her ego. I am supposed to see her almost every day but I try to avoid to see her.
I don't have any feeling for her now. But I just want to let her know and want to gain my value around my friends.
It's a complicated situation and I don't feel comfortable around my friends now.
What's best way to alleviate the situation?
Really need help!

First off I would like to point out that if these people really are your friends then this idea that you have lost value to them is all in your head. I have been in similar situations were I asked a girl out that was friends with all my friends and things do get a little awkward right after. But a few days later we have a good laugh about it and then its history. By trying to avoid her you actually make things more awkward. Avoiding the situation isn't going to help anything. If you want to get back to how things used to be with your friends your best bet it to just be yourself and act like normally would around your friends. Hell we all get shot down so you might as well chalk it up to a good story and let everyone get a good laugh about it. If you have no feeling for her anymore then you shouldn't care if you inflated her ego a bit. Like I said if these people really are your friends just be yourself and things will be back to normal in no time.

Rider07129

Agree with ryder on this one, avoiding it will only make it more awkward. If these are your true friends. They will understand and support you( they might laugh about it a little but thats what being friends are) Its what they will do afterwards for you that matters. would they support you? or Shun you?

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