Ever since I've started studying all this social dynamics stuff, I feel like I've been over analyzing situations. I used to just treat girls like any other human. There was no distinction I drew with them from guys. It all went well, I had many female friends because of this, and some who were interested in me. I didn't escalate with any of them because I was disinterested in relationships at the time. 2 years after that, I decided to study social dynamics, and it's making me feel like I'm losing my touch with natural game. So lately I've been just adopting a fuck it attitude like I used to. I think the reason my natural game is also suffering is because I'm thinking about the end result too much - relationship... maybe some poontang too. So from now on, my ultimate goal is to bring a girl back to my place so she can stitch my pair of pants that I ripped while I was doing jumping splits while goofing around in front of my mirror. I'm also running out of pants. I only have two pants left. I can have two more pants if I get the other two stitched by someone. I suck at stitching. I need a girl to stitch my pants for me.

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Visit a talior. The sartorial catastrophe your about to let yourself into isnt worth the ego boost or whatever you hope to achieve from this situtation.

Never have a girl fix your clothes unless she is a dress maker.

Get her to fix you breakfast in the morning.

(oh and keep it to yourself about doing the splits in front of yourself in the mirror, its a bit weird)

It ripped at the stitch seams so it's relatively easy to repair. In fact, I could even repair it myself after 20 or so minutes. The only reason I'm not stitching them is because I don't actually NEED them. That's kind of the mindset I'm calibrating my brain to. I don't NEED my pants stitched, or talk to girls, I just do it so I can get something cool about it. PANTS. Thinking about relationships had put too much self-pressure on me.

Today I went out with this mindset. It was definitely MUCH easier to talk to people. I had little approach anxiety and was overall a happier person.

I was dancing with my girlfriend at the time. She repaired them once for me, then she told me she didn't want to repair it again after I ripped it in front of her the exact same way I ripped them the first time.

My question was whether if changing my mindset would help my approach anxiety. I had forgotten to write that in my original post, but I answered my own question today. Thanks for responding and listening!

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"The first thing a god masters, is itself"