So recently I've been wanting to try day game, so earlier I went out on Oxford Street/Regent Street and just couldn't do it. I'm so used to bars/pubs and couldn't make that transition. I think it's because I'm so used to targets sitting or standing around. I really didn't know how to approach them while they're walking towards me or near me, the only thing I could do was make eye contact, it was hard work to think of something to say as well to be honest - totally out my comfort zone. But anyway I think I'll give it a go again tomorrow after some opinions/advice.

On a side note I think I'll do Style's 30 day challenge as something to help with daytime interactions.

My technique is simple.. when she is walking beside you, come infront of her and make her stop.. Ask her if she can tell you the directions to a certain place.. Then tell her you were kidding and you just wanted to say hey as you thought she might be interesting.. from there start a normal conversation about anything you want.. I went to oxford street a lot but I prefer to go to parks as people are more chilled out there and its easier to have a conversation as they won't be in a hurry normally.

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I like that approach, I could even do a cheeky laugh while she's telling me and she might be like "what?" - then just transitioning into saying why I came over, pretty much because she was hot.

With parks though how do you go about that? do you use the same tactic? And do you go for HBs on their own or in sets/groups?

I think you are over thinking it.

The only difference in day game is the fact that women are typically headed some where, not sitting around waiting or hoping some guy comes up and talks to them(Not all some may be waiting for some random guy to approach them in the middle of the street) Its also more difficult to capture a girls attention because they are walking or in a rush some where. That's pretty much it.

I usually use random approaches during the day since this is mainly where i meet chicks, the mall, park, any where they hangout basically.

Example of one of my approaches:

(Walking in from the front or a angle, if you are behind her try to jog a little to catch up to her and get in front of her. Never approach her from the back or grab her. Thats creepy.)

ME: Hi, How are you?

Her: Im good/great(whatever), how about you?

Me: Im wonderful. I just seen you walking and thought you were kinda cute so i just thought id introduce myself to you. I think you look amazing. Im ******.

(Now when complimenting you must be real chilled out, and look confident).

Her: Im ******(Shakes hands)

Me: Cool nice to meet you *****.


This can go two ways!
If she seems to be in a hurry cute straight to the chase.

Me: Well listen, i am in a hurry to get somewhere, and you probably have some where to be so im going to make this short and sweet. (Usually the girl begins to crack a smile.) You seem like a interesting person and i wouldn't mind hooking up with you sometime. We should (set up the first date) go to the park and feed the ducks.(whatever you want to use: grab coffee, movies, etc)

Her: Okay cool that sounds like fun(usually it is a response like this)

Me:Cool, so give me your number and i will let you know when and where.

Her: Okay! *Gives number*

Me: Well i gotta run. it was nice meeting you *****. I will be in touch.

Her: You too. See ya!(smile)


There you go..simple as that. Or if she seem like she isnt in a hurry and just chilling out, then you can make conversation with her..Notice her earrings or jewelry. Notice a detail about her, women love this. and go from there. You can basically close the same with any set.


One more example:

Me: Hi, i have 3 questions for you.

Her:Okay..

Here you can pick three things you like to do, or things you like. food, places, people, things, music, ANYTHING. And ask her does she like the same things. Usually she the female will like one of the 3 things you name, and you can say something like.

Me: Aww, i think we are meant for each other.(Smile)

Her: (Usually a laugh) and why is that?


Then you can go from here.Build on those things. This is a EASY way to make a girl feel like she knows you and associate those good feelings of meeting someone who is meant for her, with you. It also builds familiarity. She will feel like she already knows you and wont hesitate giving you the digits and meeting up.(maybe even later that night)

I use to struggle with day game but now ive figured it out. Its really not that hard. I use to over think it. Ive been blown off by females before that are usually in a rush to get some where, but more times than none they stop to talk.

So there are a few examples to get you going. Try out some of my examples and watch how they work for you.


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Likem_all,

I think you offer some great advice, I appreciate it. I do have one question however. If you can sense that she is in a rush and go straight for the digits, wouldn't she just flake on you later since she hardly knows you? How do you go about this? Build attraction via text throughout the day then try and get her out that night?

Yeah so here's the deal. Since she is in a rush, if you just let her go about her business you won't even have a CHANCE at hooking up with her. See what im getting at? BUT if you atleast let her know whats up, she may think your attractive or be optimistic about seeing you and decide that its cool. Ive had a few cases where this happened to me and the girl flaked, but thats why i had about 5 others to replace her. So since this is a tough situation you want to create the opportunity for yourself, and her. Also if you just say well im not going to approach her because she looks like she is in a rush..You miss out on a opportunity that you could be golden for you. So since she doesnt have time for you to build attraction. She probably doesnt have a lot of guys that approach her on a daily basis so she will more than likely give you the chance of day, and for you being a PUA thats all we need. But trust me, you will have girls who flake but thats normal. Don't worry about it to much. Ive had plenty. But ive had a shit load of lays from day game pick ups, and a few girl friends.

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Also in most cases not to many women are in a EXTREME rush. They atleast have a few minutes. They may just look like they are in a rush depending how fast pace your city is. Usually they are just going about daily business or walking into the office, and headed to lunch with friends, etc.

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Funny, I was having the same problem.

I think part of the problem is that in the club, I can be less direct. A girl can be standing next to me at the bar, and I just make an observation to her over my shoulder. Next thing you know I'm "accidentally" conversing with her. She's not trying to get anywhere and neither am I, so it's not weird for two strangers to be talking.

I'm starting to conclude that an indirect approach just doesn't work in the daytime.