Met a 27 year old lawyer (I'm 20), #-closed, and now we have a day 2 tonight. I've never dealt with older women, so I really don't have the slightest clue what to expect from this day 2 (Plus she doesn't know how old I am). I just need general advice on this situation, i.e. Possible things to do, ways to enhance the interaction, and what to expect/aim for at the end of the night?

Thanks

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How do you know how old she is but she doesn't know how old you are?
Does she know you are younger at least? Do you look older? Does she believe you to be closer to her age?

If she knows you are younger: Based on my experience when I was younger with older women especially women in high status jobs, it tended to be very sexual driven. Let her carry the conversation but have a very flirty/sexual vibe with her. Odds are this is exactly what she is looking for.

If she doesn't know how hold you are this could pose a problem if she asks. If you are just looking to sleep with her, I'd tell her you are a bit older. 24 minimum.


As for how to act, just keep doing your thing, you managed to get her number and secure a day 2, you must be doing something right.

In my experience with women that have spend a lot of time and effort in school and on their career, they tend to seek fun and excitement and like men with a bit of a wild side. Show this to her and be dominant sexually.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

When I hit 25 I had a rule that I would not date a woman younger than 25. If she does not know your age the best thing to do is to tell her your age.

If she is good and genuine, she can be a mentor and a friend. There is a big gap of experience between the age of 20 and 25. She may be able to lead you in the right direction of a career.

If she is not genuine it would not have worked anyway. What is the point of dating if it is not to learn. In this case you can learn how to spot a genuine woman.

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Thanks for the replies. When we met I asked her how old she was what she did etc, but I guess she never got around to asking me. In those situations I usually just get them to guess and then whatever she says, I'll respond with "Good guess" and change topic. With the age thing in mind, whats a good day2 look like? I was thinking some Cafe, maybe ice cream, walk, something a bit more low key than what I would normally do. She seems really nice and down to earth for a lawyer, and apart from her work, she doesn't really go out much she told me.

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She is educated and unless you look years older than your age which is not usual then she is well aware that you are younger.

So what? She makes no comment and is not bothered so it's a non issue.

Kino, escalate, take charge!

If you fuck her then make her say "please your honor I want more".

It depends on how old you come across. Ive been told I act like a man twice my age (to which I took great offence being 24) and then told it was a good thing.

I wouldnt worry. I love women older than me. They are far more interesting that younger girls.

Just have fun.

So heres the report,

Met for drinks at around 8, went to some cafe, good flowing conversation, not too many questions (if any) about me, but other than that conversation was mostly flowing. Around 11, I paid for drinks, we bounced to another more higher end cafe, with live music. We ordered cocktails, did some psych tests (the cube), luscher colour test, talked some more. Place closed at 12 she pays this time, and we bounced again this time to a night club. Not really her thing, but she liked to dance, so that was a plus. Around 1, we go to this open bar thing with live music, I still hadn't made too much progress, general kino, but I was still reluctant to push my bounds, couldn't tell if she was interested-- while conversations were flowing, not too much effort on her part to get to know me. The band was playing some old rock, and she got really into the music, she ordered us wine, and I sat enjoying the music, as she lightly danced at our table. This is where the breakthrough finally happened and things began to change, at one point the singer came over to our table, and commanded her to give me a kiss (luckily not on the mic ) but she kinda started laughing, and we continued our wine. After a little while, singer comes over again, and was like, "I'm sorry, but I like to bring people together, and you guys seemed like a really sweet and unique couple...", to which she responds, "Oh we're just friends." To which I respond, "We just met, we're friends... But of course everything starts from friendship " The singer then tells her to kiss me, to which she obliges, I point to my cheek, but it wasn't good so I say that it doesn't count, and the singer wants a redo. This time as she gets close, I turn into it and its a quick kiss on the lips. Again, I'm not too satisfied with this, but we keep going, and the singer keeps DHV-ing me (I'll thank him for this later):

"This guy is good looking enough to be with any girl, but if he didn't have class, he wouldn't be here with you tonight, he would be here with some girl wearing a mini-skirt and high heels. You know, theres a ratio of 1:7 guys to girls in this city, but only 1 out of 10 guys here is a proper guy, than means 70 girls for 1 Mr.Right. Take my word for it, I can read people, he's proper, I can read people. " I'll have to write that down, and return the favour to someone one day. Anyways at this point, we're holding hands, light kino, she's definetely more invested. It wasn't until the singer came that I realized what her biggest problem was, at one point she says, "But he lives on another continent.." to which the singer went on to talk about true love etc (which was good, because she mentioned before she didn't believe in love, how it was just something make believe). Now the place closes down, its 3 AM. We've been together for 7 hours. I decide its time to take her home. For the most part we walk in silence. We get to her building, and I reminded her that she still needed to teach me salsa (She's also a professional dancer), so we start the lesson in front of her building. At this point, I'm still not happy with the fact that I haven't gotten a proper kiss, or the kind of interest I normally get (even though she was playing with her hair giggling and throwing out every IOI chronicled in the PIMP manuals me that night-- though reluctant to touch me :$ ) So we finish our intro to salsa lesson, and again we're standing there, at which point I decide, alright if not now never, so I take a step closer, grab her arms, look her in the eyes, and go for the kiss, but she props her cheek, so I'm like "You know where Im from we kiss three times, once on one cheek *kiss*, once on the other *kiss*, and we have to finish in the middle but she starts laughing, so kind of irritated, I hold my ground and I say, "Well do you want to kiss me" (Style i think it was?) and she kind of stutters, caught of guard, "well I don't really believe in... " before she could finish I'm thinking F*** it, "Lets find out", I go for the kiss, short and sweet, she doesn't pull back. She then shuffles into her building and we say our goodbyes. I send a good night message, she responds "I sent you bochata (some spanish dance) Thank you for this night, I had fun too. Sweet dreams DM " Hopefully next week we'll do it again, and she'll open up. Please responds with any input, I'd love to know what your opinions are, where I went wrong, and what I should do next time.

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Couldn't tell if she was interested- Of course she is as she went out with you!

Could have escalated the kino more and then give her a little push away and see if she comes running.

For the most part we walk in silence- I would have kept light and distracting conversation up at this point as she was thinking about the outcome.

Not too bad though so far.

Next time ramp up the kino fast as though you have known each other ages.

Some teasing as well but light and playful stuff and no negs at all as she may have a confidence issue so do not amplify it.

Best of luck.