| So me and my wing Illusion were out doing day game, every things normal,
I see a 2 set and go in, hey what do you think about black nail polish? etc
blah blah blah the conversation ends after a couple more minutes on
some general chit chat, (it was just a warm up set)
NOW IT STARTS TO GET WEIRD (bet most of you guys are thinking WTF
the approach is done, don't worry you'll see)
So i'm walking away with my wing looking for the next set, probably walked
150 meters, and someone taps me on the shoulder, i'm like wtf, i turn around
and see this big asain man easily over 6 foot 2, he's wearing a jacket t shirt
jeans and white trainers, he's standing right in front of
me, he sticks his hand out offering to shake my hand, i never accepted it
was just AWKWARD.
My wing shook his hand, he couldn't speak english very well, he said to my
mate i like the way your mate was talking to the 2 set, i was like thanks (WTF)
he then asks my name i was like why, he goes my names ............. whats
yours my mate told him then i did, then he asked wer i was from i tld him
the city we wer in,(i'm thinking whats up with all these questions) he tld us
were he was from i was like ohh k thats cool, then i go to Illusion come lets go.
Then he says he wants to be able to talk to girls like i did, i was like yo ok
(what do i do now) i was like to my mate what shall we tell him then i was
like all you have to do is be confident and talk to everyone not just
girls you have to be a sociable person, we talk for another few minutes
(still awkward) then i go to him i need to go shopping
After me and my friend were like WTF just happened i was like that's the
weirdest thing thats ever happened to me.
Now looking back i learnt a lot from that experience i realised how women
feel when someone just walks up to them and tries to talk to them and they
don't know what that person wants, it really opened my eyes.
I realized you should never open from behind cuz it feels weird for the girl,
you shouldn't stand square on with the person, you shouldn't ask the person
to share details straight away, you shouldn't offer to shake there hand
straight away, you shouldn't just ask a bunch of questions, and when you
open a set if they aren't in the mood or even if they are they're still
gonna wonder when your gonna go and how long your gonna stay this
will make them uncomfortable, so you should say near the start
your only gonna be a second or anything of a similar light,
you shouldn't impose and stand right next to the person yo should
stand slightly away from the person so the person doesn't feel awkward
and if you do stand close the person will move back and feel awkward
and will have a mindset that your a weirdo. But boy was that a weird
experience, me and my friend thought we were being punked or something
like that, it was fucking crazy!!! I knew these things already but i didn't really
know why everyone did it now i understand things from a womens
perspective, and i understand why these rules have been put in place.
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