I am 28 years old and I approached more than 1500 hbs in 3 years.
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So basically I am on the other side.My results are not impressive at all.
I approached hbs who were at least 7
After 1500 approaches, I number closed more than 30. and I went on a date with 4 hbs and closed 2.
I can say I can't get the hbs to come on the date.The reason I blow off the 2 other dates was my basic mistake(they were sexually interested in me and I kissed all of them at the end of the dates.)
My biggest motivation for this amount of approach is my look which has given me enough confidence to approach any hbs(even 9 or 10s). Otherwise,I would have quit the whole thing long time ago.
I think the big part of being successful in anything including PU is getting some good feedback and result.Because of the recent pressure , I had an improvement in my game.
But basically, I can say my barrier is my language and I am a nice guy generally with no game.
The weird/funny thing i am facing is that although I am living in big city, but recently from every 3 hbs I open, I have already approached one of hbs before.(since I opened alot)
Anyway, I am thinking of lowering my standard or doing something with my game to improve it.(I've read enough.)
Any idea or suggestion appreciated!

Can you send me your pic? I'm curious as to why you got such ....chaotic results. I can speak as an expert on numbers game so PM me.

he's an expert at being a loser.

You're getting rejected because you need to tighten up your mouthpiece. I have approached many women myself (i learned the hard way) and I know if you just walk up to a girl talking out of your ass your results are going to be shit. However, if you have a strategy you can pull everytime you go out at a very high percentage.

Also, read the mystery method. Mystery compared Don Juan to Casanova and said he would rather be casanova because although Don Juan had 1000s of conquest Casanova had 100 high quality conquest. Its about the quality of your approach not quantity.

Dude , you are right.I didn't have a proper strategy before. but since 2 months ago , because of the hard time I had in my life/relationship, I had an improvement in my strategy.For example, last Saturday I approached an hb almost 10. After talking to her for a while she told me " I wish all of the guys talked to girls like you" or something like that.
She mentioned she had a bf afterward which meant I didn't do a great job. But at least I saw a different reaction from what I said. I spent huge amount of my time and energy on it. I was so shy and I couldn't talk to girls at all before. Still I am having problem. I know my biggest barrier is that my native language is not English and I am having hard time teasing girls pushing pulling etc. also I don't have strong personality all time and get emotional easily.
I think I deserve to be with an hb 10 in my life finally and I think I can do it.I hope so. but I think I have to lower my expectation for now or somehow improve my game.
I started watching some videos from a guy called tyler. He kinda opened my eyes not only in PU but in my life.

You shave that unibrow yet player?

Success Occurs when opportunity meets preparation

1.) Always have a plan; it gives you power what will happen.

2.) If you want what other people don't have you; you must be willing to do what other people won't do.

3.) A good conversation is all about the emotion it evokes in the girl and that comes from how you surgically place your words and how you deliver them. I don't worry about negging or supplicating or any of that. All I go by is how the girl feels; I read her emotions. I read how her words sound when they come out of her mouth. If she feels good around me I am doing good if she feels bad then its going bad. My objective is always to get the girl in really pleasant state then i do this consistently then she falls for me. This is simple as pie. Some guys encourage being aloof and unavailable; I am always available. I feel like the more i talk to a girl and its pleasant everytime....its like getting her hooked on a drug( I am human crack in the flesh). The more she talks to me the more she is going to want to talk to me.

4.) Don't sweat the boyfriend commit. This dime gave me her number once and told me she had a boyfriend when she gave it to me. When she did it it kinda threw me off because we were texting and flirting and stuff. I think It was more for me to be cautious when calling her, but she broke up with him like 2 weeks after i got the number so...

5.) Value yourself as a man http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DCKANtna ... BC46134473 . You are not chasing women; you want to be chased. When you approach a woman your goal is not to get a number. Your goal is to demonstrate value, to make an impression. When you impress a girl she will become a groupie; I know this from experience.

you're soft

BTW, I forgot to mention, one of my F-closed was pretty crazy.
She was a rich kid and(I am obviously not).I have a roommate and I told her. She said we should get room in a hotel. she even paid for the room which was like 300 bucks for that night.Well, I felt good that night since she paid 300 bucks to fuk her.
I think many of hbs I approached have not dated guys from other countries. Many of them are good enough that don't have to look around and take risk with someone strange from another country.
When I look from her perspective it's kinda make sense for me.
BTW, I sarge solo which makes it harder for me sometimes, since many times hbs ask me where my friends are.

Yeah that was pretty good if you got her to pay that much for it....

Here's a general rule, "would you holler at yourself"...I mean you can tell when you are good at something, you know when you are the shit. You know. So, here's a rule don't even ask the girl for her phone number if you don't feel you made a good impression. Don't even ask.

when I have made an impression, girls have disrespected themselves trying to get with me. When you chase you disrespect yourself.

I am curious, where are your friends at? You should consider getting some cool friends. Is gonna take your game up so much. Social skills are crucial to get your success up. Not only that, is gonna take your cold approaching down because you will meet girls from other girls.

I have not done an cold approach for at least month and a half now. Is because I am always rolling with girls. And a lot of these girls were introduce to me by my homegirls.

please read the forum rules, refrain from flaming

I'm sorry. I wasn't upset. I just jabbed the dude because he jabbed me...

Nice DHV

yeah, a man of integrity knows when to apologize.