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PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 5:18 pm 
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Hi. It's a bit long but I'll be grateful if you helped me.
So I met this awesome girl who is the daughter of a female friend of my dad's. First day with her I made her laugh a lot etc'. Next day I contacted her on facebook and after a chat for a while, I asked for her number. At first she wasn't sure, but then she wrote her number and said she had a boyfriend but "we can stay in touch". Her facebook status said "single", but she says that her BF doesn't want her to change it. She also said "I suspect you doubt me having a boyfriend", then continued "well I honestly do have one". To this point it seems like a friendzone, but there's a twist.
I contacted her on SPAM and we talked for an hour and a half. She kept mentioning how bored she is, as if she's waiting me to invite her out. I should say that whenever we talked I never answered instantly but rather waited a few seconds demonstrating high value. She's flying away for like 2 months and has 2 day left here, so I tried to ask her out and meet her, but she said she's hanging out with her friends since she's leaving etc'. Than somehow we got to talk about Paris. And she said half-kidding "then let's go to Paris together!". After talking for another short while she said "why won't you come with me to LA?"
Is she crazy or what? I'm very confused, won't meet me for a coffee but invites me to travel thousands of miles with her?

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EDIT: Another detail that might be important is that I'm 17.5 and she's 14.5, however she is looks and talks like a 16-17 years old girl.


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Is she crazy or what? I'm very confused, won't meet me for a coffee but invites me to travel thousands of miles with her?

Thanks.
I would say something like "Oh I see, you want me to be your boy toy huh? I'm just not THAT easy sweetheart :)"

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To that I actually answered "haha are you mad? Wanna travel the world with me but not have a coffee? But actually have been planning to go to Universal Studios for a long time now and it might be a good chance for that"

I know, it's not exactly DHV and seems a bit rushed, but it's really hard to seem like you have all the time in the world when that awesome girl is leaving the country in 2 days (and she is awesome, really cool character and at least HB eight).

If only I could meet her... Building attraction isn't very possible in Instant Messaging, and the attraction I've built the first day I met her (she sent some IOI's) has probably faded. BTW I couldn't ask for her number that day, we just didn't have a single moment without my dad and her mom... :?


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Are you just messaging through facebook?

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Through SPAM, a smartphone Instant Messaging software (basically free SMS messages).

I think she might be unsure whether she wants to be with me or not and that's why the games. Maybe I'll say something like "Today you're saying goodbye from your friends, but tomorrow it's a goodbye from me, in the beach, restaurant or wherever you choose. But if you're indecisive I can always surprise you with an interesting place, so we could say goodbye before meeting in LA".

BTW I can really go to LA, I happen to have a huge 7 months vacation available and am anyway planning on a cross country trip...


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Maybe I'll say something like "Today you're saying goodbye from your friends, but tomorrow it's a goodbye from me, in the beach, restaurant or wherever you choose. But if you're indecisive I can always surprise you with an interesting place, so we could say goodbye before meeting in LA".
Not bad but show some leadership here! decide where your going and stick to it, if YOU feel like changing location later, fine.
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BTW I can really go to LA, I happen to have a huge 7 months vacation available and am anyway planning on a cross country trip...
Or say; "It may your last chance to let you still talk me into running away with you, depending on how that goodbye turns out :)"

Gets her emotions going, thinking about "running away" with Mystery and romance .....

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Okay so that's what I wrote:

"So that's how's it gonna be: today you're saying goodbye from your friends and that's fine. But tomorrow is your goodbye from me - and probably your last chance to convince me to run away with you to LA, but only if it's gonna be fun! :)"

She answers "so come with me"

I answer "Not before you're coming with me to an interesting place of which I'll choose. It's a surprise."

She says "Okay"

Well it's seems to have gonna pretty well, but not quite... Why didn't she use any punctuation marks / emotion stuff such as :) :D :] etc'?


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She says "Okay"

Well it's seems to have gonna pretty well, but not quite... Why didn't she use any punctuation marks / emotion stuff such as :) :D :] etc'?
So, she's is likely excited.....and hurried her answer!

Pick somewhere cool! Good luck Bro!

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Well when I think about it she did hurry her answer, even though she didn't show any emotion in her message. Where should I take her? I mean it can't just be a caffe after I promised something "interesting"...

Oh I have an idea, maybe I'll take her to the Go Karts lol... Sounds a bit foolish, but the other day she saw an Audi R8 and said "wow, such a cool and beautiful car" and later on I kinda negged her by calling her "a bit of a tomboy", so it might be indeed funny and interesting... Or is it a bad idea, taking a girl on a date to Go Karts? Of course we'll go to drink or eat something later, but still...


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Oh I have an idea, maybe I'll take her to the Go Karts lol... Sounds a bit foolish, but the other day she saw an Audi R8 and said "wow, such a cool and beautiful car" and later on I kinda negged her by calling her "a bit of a tomboy", so it might be indeed funny and interesting... Or is it a bad idea, taking a girl on a date to Go Karts? Of course we'll go to drink or eat something later, but still...
I'm sure Go karts are fine LOL! they are timeless and ageless, and competitive!
Tell her you need to test her driving skills in case you ever need a "get away driver"!

I like to do "multiples" when on a "date" Start there, then, Ice tea out on the street, then a walk, then a bite to eat, then a river boat ride, or zoo. the point is it builds comfort shows your a capable leader, and make it seem like you have been dating for a while, when it is time to escalate to the next level 8)

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Seriously. I asked her "so tomorrow about 12-1 PM, i'm stealing you for an hour or two"

"I'm actually in a pool all day long with my friends, we're having a party"

"You know I don't bite. Well maybe a little bit :wink:"

"Dude it's her boyfriend so you can't steal her tomorrow."

Aww damn it. So she probably is taken, and probably is attracted to me, but just won't let herself. That makes sense. Pff that's annoying, if only I could get rid of him... Well maybe after she won't see him for 2 months it'll end.


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UPDATE:

Now for the purpose of this story I'll say that about 2-3 days ago she told me she'd been to the beach and got completely burned.

So after the incident in which her BF talked to me from her phone, next morning she texted "Good morning" followed by "Did you enjoy yesterday?" (because I told her that I was going out with friends instead of her, because she didn't want to).

We had a little chit chat. This evening (already 12 AM), before her flight (11 AM), I said: "I'm coming over to give you a friendly high-five". She answers "I can't, me and my mother are sleeping."
"You're sleeping with each other? O.O"
She answers "No dummy, I mean the whole house is asleep. Forget it, maybe tomorrow ...."
I answered "I'm serious, one high-five and I'm gone. Nothing 'illegal'. Just a first meeting before we meet in LA, in a case we do".
Than she says "we'll talk later good night".
"Just be spontaneous!"
"I'm sleeping dummy, hehehe"
Then she continues "Listen I don't want you to see me because my whole face is peeled off and completely red, I have some serious sun-burns. My whole body is burned." (I'll remind you that 2-3 days ago she did mention getting seriously burned at the beach)

"Oh, so that's serious I see."

"Good now you understand my pain and why I don't want you to see me. And yes falling asleep for two hours on the beach is serious hahaha"

"Good night"
"Good night"
"And enjoy with your father you fried thing:)"
"Don't worry I will"

She's going to LA to see her dad btw.

So anyway... Does this seem legit? Do you think she really wanted to see me but didn't want me to see her?


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