So I've been out of the game for some time. I wanted to get some advice on this situation because I'm not very good at reading body language any more. I went to get my haircut at Great Clips and got a hot little hairdresser who seemed to eagerly enjoy my company. We had some great conversation about lots of different things. She told me about her brother's wife cheating on him and basically all about her ex husband and many more personal details. But her body language is what I have a question about. When I sat in the chair she put her hands on my shoulders and started talking to me. No big deal. As we continued to talk she would stop and rest her hands on my shoulders and rub my back. If she went to the counter to get something else she needed, when she returned she would stop cutting my hair and put her hands back on my shoulders while she talked. She tilted her head while looking at me and asked me did I like her hair (she just got it highlighted). I think there was chemistry there. After she got through with me I had to wait for someone I went there with to finish getting their haircut so I observed what she did to the next guy whose hair she cut. She never put her hands on the guy and really didn't talk to him much. I wonder did I let a date pass by or maybe I'm reading too much into this. I'm recently separated and 36 years old. Been married for 15 years until recently. Things have changed. Need advice. Maybe I can go back in and talk to her or call up there. I don't want to get the creep tag so maybe I just let the moment pass me by and can learn from it.

Jesus guy.... I have never seen thee most detailed and to be honest incredibly FUCKING CREEPY thread in my life...its like you sat there...psychotic ally observing every minute detail to an extremely unnatural extent. For the sake of even getting a date with this woman, stop.

Also just ask her out and if she says no, big fucking deal. Move on to the next hairstylist.

There are no stupid answers , only stupid people. Thanks for the confirmation, "Leader".