Hey guys,
I've been chatting online with this 20 year old woman and I'm a 36 year old separated man. Not divorced yet but separated. So things were going good and we were emailing 5 or 6 times a day. We have a lot in common. There was some highly suggestive innuendo for the last week and then this chick flipped the script on me and said we couldn't get feelings because I was still legally married. And it was going to be hard for her to stop talking to me but she felt that it was best after her mother blasted her for talking to an older "married" man. I wrote back and said I think it's not anyone's business but I don't think there was a problem but I'm not one to hang around so "OK" I would leave her alone. Basically I was into this chick until she went all crazy out of the blue. So I went about my own business and she emails me a few days later to say she would get back to me in response to my email. I waited a few days with no email from her so I replied that I thought she said she was done with it and me? Now today she emails me about how much she misses talking to me and how she knows she made a mistake and probably messed things up. I really liked her before but now I believe since she went all freaking crazy on me I am just in it now for the nookie. How should I play this out? I think she may be gaming me. Or she pushed and I didn't pull and she's not used to someone not giving a crap and watching her walk away. Should I wait a few days and respond back or wait like a week or something and just when she absolutely has given up I pull her back in?

how about meeting her in real-life?

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

We were suppose to meet in August because we are several states away and my schedule is tight. Until then I need advice.

Ok this may just be me but IMO she is a flakey kind of woman. She likes the idea of being with you but what you said so far may not have convinced her to really get with you yet. You gotta really test her out more and figure out how your actually gonna meet up with her IRL.

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aiden k. baker

Wow. Thats only a month away. If I were I would be on a level of AIMing and texting her a lot. Then SPAM if you can. Get past just stupid emails.

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aiden k. baker

That's good advice man. Texting is a no go because the soon to be ex wife is hawking her access to our mobile phone service bill details hoping she'll be able to find I am talking to other women.

I'll see if she want to gmail chat.