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I've heard many PUAs talk about being in a sexual frame at some point in the approach without necessarily talking about sex. Many PUAs say this but they never explain how you do it. My question is how do you go about being sexual without necessarily talking about sex?
My appoaches lately have been mediocre. I"ve gotten a few numbers lately, but my approaches simply lack the fire that seems to be present when other PUAs do it. and I feel like the reason why is because I don't go into a sexual sate at some point in the conversation.
So how do I go about being "sexual"???
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a sexual frame is established when the meaning behind your interaction is sexual, so for example, if I were to walk up to a girl and say, hey, I think you are fucking sexy, I want to take you home tonight but first I want to talk with you, if she agrees to talk past that point it is under a sexual frame
the point is there is sexual intent behind what is being said and what is going on, you could start talking to a girl trying to convince her about how you have an amazing poker set at home she just has to see later, if the frame is sexual, she is aware that you will not be playing poker
how ever if you think you can hide your intentions in order to set a sexual frame, you can not, the intent is clear, if you verbalize it or not is a different matter, if there is no sexual intent behind what is happening then the frame is non-sexual
at some point, the frame must become sexual or sex can not happen, the dick has to leave the pants, there will be no point in your life where your game gets so good that you can trick a sober girl into having sex with you and she won't even realize she had sex, if you have had sex before in your life, you have already set a sexual frame before, at some point she understood the meaning behind what you were doing was geared towards the two of you slamming together in private (or public)
there are also several ways to set sexual frames, there are little games and routines, there is sexual qualification, future projection, innuendos, sexual state projection, physical escalation
there is probably a shit ton more that you could look up