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| fansse | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 2:17 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Mar 13, 2012 7:16 pm Posts: 33 | | Hi guys, how are you doing ?
I hope your fine. Well, since my journey in the pickup artist world I'm doing very well in the club. I keep getting better so I have a good motivation to continue. But there's that problem that I can't seem to fix : Girls doesn't text back or even if they text it doesn't go anywhere.
I don't understand this, since some of the girls that I text, I already kissed them, so it must have been some attraction right ? Or others that I haven't kiss, they really seem to have enjoyed the conversation.
I don't think it's a matter of chance ( like it's her cellphone who is broken or something like this ), because 3/5 are nothing texting back.
Even if they respond, I just can't get them to a date.
What am I doing wrong. How to text game a woman? If you have any thread, all help is welcome.
Thank you very much, all response are appreciated!
Fansse - Regular guy tryin' to make it.
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| IwantEasyLove | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 2:27 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri May 25, 2012 2:51 pm Posts: 882 | | 1.) girls don't take the club seriously...as far as guys because they think the guys just want to fuck. 2.) Often times girls are drunk and behave in ways the normally dont behave anywhere else and they want to distance themselves from the club the night after...kinda like a buyers remorse, I find that girls just don't seem proud of who they meet in the club. 3.) Everything was physical at the club and there was no real mental/emotional . 4.) Girls just go to the club for attention
So you need to talk more and do less kissing. Demonstrate value. Demonstrate value. The goal is not a number but to demonstrate value and build TRUST.
I have had girls do this to me, but on the flipside I have also done it to girls. ... just because I saw nothing serious.
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| zlibby76 | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 2:59 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Jul 02, 2012 6:13 pm Posts: 40 Website: http://www.MasterTheMasculine.com Location: Salt Lake City | | I'm curious how much rapport/trust you've built. Attraction doesn't seem to be lacking at all.
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| fansse | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 3:20 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Mar 13, 2012 7:16 pm Posts: 33 | | I do go the number pretty quick.
So you must right.
Thanks
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| MadTown Mayhem | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 3:24 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 22, 2012 3:11 pm Posts: 130 | | Generally speaking, if a girl flakes the main reason is usually because rapport was not achieved. In her mind there is no reason to call/text back, or worse, she has unanswered questions about you that her own mind is filling in the blanks on.
Girls are hit on constantly during night game. She probably had attraction with several guys. After the night is over and the alcohol has worn off she starts analyzing the moves & motives of all the guys she felt attraction to. If she didn't feel any closer than the attraction then you're just lumped in with all the other players, one notch above the AFCs.
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| fansse | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 3:34 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Mar 13, 2012 7:16 pm Posts: 33 |
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| rakeal | PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 3:59 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict | Joined: Tue Jun 01, 2010 8:32 pm Posts: 289 | | It's typical behavior for a woman. Doesn't have much to do with you except you had your chance for an interaction, you kissed her and gave her your number. If she feels like kissing you again then she will text. Women generally like kissing, it could build into something in the future but kissing doesn't really happen through text. So until the opportunity arises where you're there and she feels like kissing again she ignores her phone. If you're thinking you can now text her into a sexual relationship... maybe... but unlikely if she isn't responding. Most women don't fantasize about kissing a guy in the club. It seems insane but women can compartmentalize like that. Sometimes it's better to be remembered as the guy she kissed in the club rather than some guy who texted her a bunch of times.
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