these are my two biggest sticking points first off is opening but i dont like opening because i run out of things to say fast but after that point im golden. For example my friend is basically my opener/ convo holder, the other night he opened a set and there was one good looking girl that i ended up giving her my number and we have plans to hang out so its like this barrier of opening and a couple minutes of conversation that is holding me back my plan to overcome this is not the opener its self because i dont have a problem saying anything to some random girl but to keep her attention and get that number close through that short,friendly,funny,etc convo. So i think my best bet would be to memorise ten open ended questions to keep a conversation going with either one girl or a group doesnt matter any advise would be appreciated also feel free listing me some common questions you have used to keep the convo alive thanks a lot -MarkiS

What do you want? Lines or concepts?



That was a tough read, dude.

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Concepts.

lines and my bad i was in a rush

I'm out.

Hope you find all the 'lines' you like....

I deal with people that actually want to change themselves for this...


RR

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how's a line going to help you get over your sticking point (carrying a conversation)
We can give you lines, just to find you back here the next day asking for more lines.

The problem with scrips are that as much as someone tries to prepare for a conversation ahead of time, it a lot it tends to go out the window once they're talking to someone in real life and they have to think on their feet. When you're trying to listen to someone, or come up with what to say next, it's hard to simultaneously refer back to the whole overall plan in your head. And beyond the first few relatively easy-to-predict exchanges, a conversation can quickly go off in any number of directions. It's totally impractical to try to go in with some grand flowchart that covers every possibility.

Seriously dude why not work on the real problem instead of trying to accumulate scripts?

DP

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alright whats the answer to the real problem then? im trying to learn so if lines arent the best thing then what is?