So, I went out with this girl I had been texting, we went to the movies, but I really didn´t think there was a moment when I could make my move (she was with her arms crossed and not in a position where I could grab it without being creepy)
So, 2 questions:
1. Could it be because it was just the first time we went out?
2. Do girls know that when you go out with them you have the intentions to make a move or do they think that sometimes it´s "just as friends"? (I know they say that but do you think it´s for real or do they know and expect you to do something if you asked them out)

By the way, movies aren´t a good idea for going out?? I´m 17 and just started with these stuff really.
I would really apreciate your help.

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"End? No, the journey doesn't end here. Death is just another path... One that we all must take." Gandalf

well, you already mentioned that her arms was crossed. Her body langauge shows that either" 1) she is bored 2) you wernt what she was expecting. 3) she really shy.
Most girls will gives you subtitle hint for you to make a move on her. Her body langaunge will tell you that. what else happen that night? what did you guys talk about before or after the movie?

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"Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f

Yeah, I thought making a move wouldn´t be smart with her arms crossed, so about the 3 points you made:
1) We were at the movies, so if she was bored, probably wasn´t my fault but the movies´lol.
2) She knows me because we went to school together, we talked a lot in a club on a trip, and she texted me more than I texted her and she texted stuff like: "you are one of the funniest guys I´ve known and you make me laugh and I hope we go to university together". (we just finished high school, but didn´t really talked a lot, different classrooms)
3) I think this would be the most likely, because she always was kind of shy, and she has very over protective parents and stuff like that.

Before the movies we talked about where we were going to university, and she was telling me about some guys of my ex-classroom that asked her out and she turned down, and we talked a little about how Pixar was better than Dreamworks.

I think I won´t ask her out again because I really wasn´t enjoying myself but I would really like to know if all girls are like that in the movies and what´s the best way to make a move. I would appreciate any advice.

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"End? No, the journey doesn't end here. Death is just another path... One that we all must take." Gandalf

knowing that much, she seems like she into you. so you need to step it up. Its hard to make a move at the movies since you 2 are focus on something else and that it might disturb other people even if you try. Also if the movie is boring it can damper the mood of both parties. You need an activity after the movie where you can interact more say like an arcade, bowling, ice skating, whatevers. something that gives you a change to interact more with her and allows you to kino. I'm not the type to take a date out to a movies. if i was to watch a movie it would be in the privacy of my own room which can set the mood for other things. Main focus here is you need more interactions with her. Escalate and then gauge her responds.

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"Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f