Sup player,
Going out alone sucks compared to no wing. But its not that bad. Low Risk, High reward of sex. Always think that. Plus, you and I both know when you see that REALLY hot girl by yourself, you should / want to be approaching. Always pretend theres a gun to your head. Trick your brain. I know it sounds like a gimmick, but even the best of us need to remind ourselves that we are fucking men.
That...and she could have sucked off 10 dicks in the parking lot for all you know. Never give her too much credit.
Also.....you need to go direct game. The "Hi I just had to come and meet you" thing sounds like you are trying Yad/Andy Yosha technique from Daygame.com?
I recommend reading my Manifesto :
http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/no ... 38002.html