Hi to you all. I have one mine girl firend i know for 12 years but we never heve been close friends. She was in marrige and know she is divorced and we hang eachother every day. The thing is taht i start frome begening to do all to escape friend zone frome the moment we start to hang out every day and i use all steps i need to use (im reedenig so much right know about PUA, NLP and all other stuff about seducing), that was gone very vell, one night she attacted me and even tried to kiss but me wre drunk and the kiss didi not happen. Also there is some other guy whit who she is in a secret relathionship. Im playng my game by the book and she is still calling me every day and want to spend much more time whit me. My question is how to spped things up and how to close this on the best possible way. I will be geaytful if some dedicatet member can give me some pointers and advice. Thanks!

Anyone???

And she just text me that she had a big argue whit "boyfriend" last night She wanted to dump him and now she told me "Evrething is ok, i fix problems" Can anyone tell me what to answer???

"I am the answer to your problems"

Yeah yeah, thats very good, i think i will send her that. But i must to ask this also, Before all of this we ware drunk and i almost told her all my feelings but indirectly (i told her that i can make fall in love whit her and that i dont want to doing myself becuse i will be hurt and maybe is better to stop hungeachoder), that was pretty bad. but i waited two days after that and call her like nothing happened, we have a litlle talk and i fix the situation. I told her that i was drunk and that she does not must to thik about things a say to her and for sure we will be just friends and she does not mus to think nothig above that ( i tried to use reverse psychology), she want to be friends ok, we will be friends. any more tips after this? Maybe some other message to answer her?

Stay away from the married girls unless your strictly fucking them. Don't even bother with the relationship. And her having ANOTHER secret relationship or whatever you called it should be a clear indicator to STAY AWAY!

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THe previous member has a good comment, but it sounded like she was divorced, which is it? I only ask because I am screwing a girl who is separated and I just take in stride as fun, which I should.

As for your dilemma, you're acting kind of like a little bitch. The I am the answer to your problems text I think is awesome, that the other member posted. Tell her this other guy is a loser, or however you feel. I did this with a friend of mine, who I might be able to hook up with. She was dating this loser guy forever, I mean all the signs were there, I just pointed them out...you don't have to be an overt jerk about it, but do it. She ended up dumping him and I said, "I know you're upset, but trust me this is for the best...."

Anyway, grow a pair and go for it...I think you'll get it.

She is divorced and she have another guy in secret relathioship, i done all stuff good about going out from the friend zone and taht was well, i dont want to tell her that her present boyfriend is an ashole. I dont want to be needy, im telling her that he is a great guy and that her eyes glancing when she talk about him, i disqualfy myself and that going weel. But right now i was at her place and she started to talk about him and to "fuck" me whit her problems. i told her "you know what" i did not come here to you to listen you crying to me about your problems, if you want we can go out and make fun if no, i go myslef to make some fun whit friends. than she tryed to put her apartment key back of me and she tryed to make me long as possibile at her place but i get the key and go out. After a couple minutes she text me. "Juhhhu i love you, i know that im terrebil but i will be "ME" again after i resolve this problems i have. I answered "Wow know i feel so gentl" (sarcastis of course)". P.s at the time i was at her place she talked at phone whit her girl friend and all she talk about was her "boyfriend" and that she will go out whit him publicli becuse she dont want to keep that as secret anymore or she will end things whit him. In the begining i had all the power and i lead the game, but know the power is at her side and i dont want to be castrated. She also trying to make friends whit my 3 female friends and she told me, know we can make a team and go out to make fun (thats beacuse im ignoring her, i left her home and go out whit my other female friends). She also told me that trow out her garbage when im going out from her apartment, i told her "you can do that by yourself". And right know she send me two sms one by one. The first one was "Eat shit ashole." And the other was "Not even a garbage you did not wanted to trow away. Pihhh what kind of mane you are 666-999". So any advices?

If moderator thinks this to other subject and not for general questions, they can put this in some other subject.

Some expert help?

Im in deep problem here, is it possibile that no one can not give me a tip?