this pua stuff really works but now i feel really bad. i guess my conscience is getting to me because i've been using these women for sex. i mean i dont promise them anything but i think most of them expect something further after we have sex. i got my heart broken and i didn't care about bitches feelings for a minute but i dont think most of these women want to be treated this way. sorry but has anyone ever felt this way?

as long as you are upfront in the first instance i dont see why it should be a problem for you. unless you're deliberately going out of your way to hurt them.

i have to show a little interest in them in order for them to trust me enough to have sex but after i bust a nut im just like ok you have to go now bye, im such an asshole.

change your approach.

your current method can be summarized as fake genuine relationship interest, just enough to get them to bite, bed them, then throw them out like garbage.

likely not the best approach.

how about you actually set expectations up front that you are a great friend, an even better lover, but not looking for a serious committed relationship. but that you are willingly to give them a good time and excitement.

this approach also puts no pressure on them to go down the relationship road.

they are following your cues. and you are sending false cues.

change it up.

evolve.

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i never tell them i want a relationship or anything like that, but after we have sex i dont really want anything to do with them. i feel like a dick because some of them keep trying to talk to me and i have to ignore them or be mean

93% of communication is nonverbal.

you don't have to "say" anything to say lots.

stop trying to seem so interested in them, and instead try to seem very fun so they want to be around you.

when you act "interested" in a girl, she assumes you want a relationship. you don't have to say it, to say it.

when you act "fun" and "exciting", they just want to be around, and will likely give you sex, but they don't assume you want a relationship.

either way, if you were managing expectations up front. you wouldn't have to feel bad about throwing them out because they would just leave knowing it was all just about fun...with no strings.

if you want NSA, you have to make that known.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!