Hey,

I'm currently a little under the weather...

Thing is, I used to have two friends I went out sarging with pretty much at least once a week.
Then my cousin (girl) was dumped by her boyfriend and moved back to my town.
Initially thought she'd be a great supplement to our group (having a hot girl coming along with you always makes a good impression on other girls)

How naive. How VERY naive.

She hooked up with that one friend of mine, they're a couple now.
Dead for social events.
My other friend brought back a pretty HB to our appartment (we live together).
I didn't intend to really make moves on her at the beginning, I'm just naturally very flirtatious with women.
She ate it up and pretty much ignored him the rest of the evening, giving all her attention to me

We once met again at a festival and she was again pretty much flirting with me most of the time.

She then broke her arm, he visited her and f*closed her; - I guess I can write him off as well now. (He's "visiting" her every day now)

If you read my other posts, you'll notice that I'm currently not really successful with women at all (it's like I got the plague or something)

In short, the whole world is f*** around, while I don't even know who I should take along for sarging any more.

1) Is that even a reason for feeling blue?

2) Really could use some motivational words here...

(Please, don't make my stomach turn by trying to COMFORT me...)

Thanks,
me.

If you had to move to another place, city or country where you did not know anyone, what would you do? Would you sit around and feel sorry for yourself? Or would you go out and meet new people? The only one that can show you happiness is YOU. If you are lonely, go out and meet people. You'd be surprised how easy it can be if you make the effort. A little effort can go a long way.

Go on an adventure by yourself, dress up nice, grab a pocket full of cash and go somewhere you would never imagine you going, especially alone. Let your instincts guide you. Be friendly to everyone. You never know where you may end up. Some of life's most fascinating events happen from spur of the moment actions.

Live your life damn it!


Leap and the net will appear~~John Burroughs

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

itisme - define the relationship you have with your friends.

If friend of mine is sarging a chick - she's off limits: end of story. I don't care if she begged to fuck me while he was in the bathroom. I've had a friend's girlfriend come into my bedroom and ask me to fuck her before. I'd been in a 3-some with her, and she wanted more - figured since she'd already fucked me it was cool. NOT AT ALL. I told her to GTFO and that I'd be mentioning that to my buddy later (I called him immediately thereafter).

I don't fuck up a friendship - it's too rare in my life.

If you don't have that same level of respect with your roommate - you need to address it.

And - a HB is great to sarge with - but not essential. In fact, not yet for you!

I tell any newb I'm taking under my wing to crawl before he walks. I'm not going to wing a set until I know this person has the skills to learn what I'm trying to teach. They get that by experience. Until they follow through opening sets - I'll be damned if I'll do it for him. BUT - I'll break his set if he's taking too long and see what I can pull from it. That's the divider between AFC and new-trainee. If they can't handle the approach, open and at least a transition - after 2 weeks in the field practicing - they won't get the concepts as it is...

Your journey to becoming a PUA is yours - alone. People will offer advice, insight, commentary, humor, etc... as support and assistance - but that actual walk is yours. Opening sets, determining transition, making a proper approach, stacking, VAK modeling, SI modeling, Negging... ALL to be discussed with a PUA - but perfected by you.

Many people want to give the PUA a bad name simply because he is a 'womanzier'. Well DAMN RIGHT we're womanziers. I give women the power of their own orgasm. I don't look at being a PUA in a negative light. I'm damn thankful for the training I've received. Never let that get you in a funk - that you're 'somehow' doing something wrong.

Who you take sarging comes down to a simple case of respect. What friend do you respect & trust? And if it's a friend you don't trust nor respect - they wouldn't be a friend. Set your ground rules with your friends before you go out and you won't feel 'blue' - you'll feel the 'pink'.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.