So I'm 33 and am going to grad school at the moment. I'm working at a bar and constantly surrounded by women in their early 20's. A lot of them ask how old I am and I can feel interest from them but when I say 33 they always say wow you don't look that old. Yes that's a compliment but I feel like they are letting the number get to them. Any ideas on how to make them not care or think it's a good thing?

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"hi i'm John and i'm 33 yo, nice to meet you"
feel good and confident with your age, because it is really nothing.
most girls will even like mature

Take it as a complement IOI, and go from there. for most women age is just a number, and thank the pussy gods, older men appeal to younger women!

When asked though, why do you feel obligated to blurt out your answer at their command?

Add a little mystery and side step with a smart-ass comeback... Like: Old enough to know better!

My 2c

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Those girls are just looking for an excuse (unconsciously) to touch you to test if your muscles are firm or if you're strong enough. Say something like, "Don't worry. I'm of legal age. You won't get jailed for sexually harassing a minor."

I'm not sure about you but on field, women I say that line to start to touch me. Try it sometime and see where it gets you. If these women touch you, then you're good.

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Rather than thinking of your age as a negative, use it to your advantage! It might hurt you a little when it comes to young post teen girls (18 to 23) but girls in their late 20's are looking for responsible men, they don't want the college jock anymore! stop hanging out at college bars and go to a more mature club or bar, you have a massive advantage over a 22 year old pua! trust me! Plus I'm not sure what if you are looking for a relationship or just to bang? but if you are looking for a relationship then you don't want to date a 20 year old....you will have nothing in common with someone like that.

haha you guys rock! Yeah I like the approach of just sidestepping in a funny way. I've had a couple chicks I work with say that I'm the oldest working at the bar and I just smirk and say "it's good to be the king". I never really thought in terms of answering "at their command". Makes sense though, I'm in control of the situation.

And to clarify, I never thought my age was a big deal or a negative, in fact 30's are awesome. I was just looking for a way to make in non-threatening to younger girls. And I am looking for a relationship but not with young 20's but would be down to bang the young ones. They are pretty annoying, but hot lol. Unfortunately that's the pool of women I'm dealing with. Small college town.

Great answers guys I'll put this stuff to use tonight.

Well, chicks got eyes, right? So, if they find you too old for them, I don't think there is anything you can do about it.

I don't make it even an issue so, it isn't an issue to her. Ozzie from rsd made a video about this. You can find it in the rsdnation archives or on youtube. A good find and read for anyone feeling too old. Its just an excuse.

I think you are allowing the fact that they have a "reaction"(even if it is a meaningless one) toward you're age effect you're state and confidence toward the pull. If you are content with you're age and feel its perfectly normal for a girl in her 20s to sleep with a guy that is only 33, I'm sure they will be just find with it. Once you accept you're self there are very few people that will not accept you. In fact, a good buddy of mines dad is around 52-55 and he sleeps with 20 year olds consistently. It's not effecting him so I'm sure you can work through it as well

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Check out the race/age/looks matter post on page 2 or 3. The fact is regardless of how amazing your inner game is, to some girls you are just an old fart and they probably would never fuck you even given the age number. So....either don't let this affect you, or just find the ones willing.

Considering you're in a small town, I doubt trying to be physical with a girl that doesn't want to date someone the age of her younger uncle will work and only serve to get a harassment charge on you on campus grounds.

My advice is to you, be a man, don't give a fuck, escalate with the girls down for it, and with the ones not down for it....move on. There is no way to "convince" any girl to fuck you.