I know I'm gonna catch some heat from members here on the board but I think this is something that should be said... I'm not trying to offend anyone but some people who use PU go out of the lines. I'll explain.

I think PU is fine if someone is using it for self-improvement, to better themselves and to bring better woman in their life; but as for things like breaking up marriages, and splitting up girlfriend and boyfriend, in my personal opinion I think that's too much.

Did you study game to better yourself or breakup a home? Now before you get defensive let be elaborate. Imagine that you spent YEARS trying to find the right girl, and one day you finally get her and you's both hv a fantastic relationship - she's your dream girl - you CAN'T IMAGINE LIFE WITHOUT HER. You eventually end up marrying her, spending thousands on a house, a marriage, a bigger car and everything else. Then one day some guy comes along when your away, runs game on your wife, she gives in, sleeps with him and eventually you divorce her... Oh and eventually he doesn't marry her, he just breaks up with her.

How would you feel? It's life destroying. You'd be brokenhearted, angry, filled with rage and I don't want to hear any different answer. Yet, guys use PU to this kinda stuff everyday and that's where it crosses the line. Now, say even with a Bf and Gf, if she's the type of girl who will cheat on her Bf with you then she'll cheat on you - and who wants that kind of girl???

I'm just saying Pua's need to be realistic and realize that there's consequences for your actions. If you wouldn't like your Gf/Wife cheating on you why do it to someone else. Guys, I'm not trying to be a jerk I'm just trying to suggest that there are better ways of doing things, and to be wise in life and if your wise I think you'll agree.

Think before you do.
Thanks.

Good post; I definitely feel ya here

PUAs are full of shit. The reality is this: most guys just enter a girls life whose marriage is already going fucking downhill or the relationship sucks. Do not mistake PUAs for "convincing" a girl by using BF Destroyers, Husband Destroyers, and all this nonsensical and utter bullshit.

The fact is, it's quite easy to "break up a home" or a relationship, I've done it many times (in terms of boyfriends and one engaged girl who eventually realized she didn't truly love her soon-to-be). But the women say so after the fact. Now, some girls say "I have a boyfriend/I'm married" but still let you makeout with them and all this stuff, but do not be fooled into thinking PUAs do anything MAGICAL to get her legs open. I know I don't. I just be sexual, be a man, and she just lets it happen because most girls will never come up to the guy and initiate this. Chances are, girl was bound to leave the guy anyways. One can even argue you are helping the guy in the long-run. I know I'll get flamed for this concept.


To the desperate retarded posters that say "SHE HAS A BF WHAT DO I DOOOO" Duh. Escalate and stop being a little gaping vagina. Sexual selection is in the domain of women. This is a universal fact. She will allow you access, otherwise it is borderline rape.

I know what your saying, if a girl wants to cheat on her Bf/Husband she'll find a way to do it but it still does effect the other guy. To think the guy in the relationship will say, "Dude, thank you so much for helping my wife cheat on me!" (To someone in general not to you personally) That's illogical and not the pattern we see in sociology.

We can't assume that every girl whose willing to cheat is in a bad part of her marriage - there's other reasons. It could also be the person she's cheating with, example: a perfectly normal girl in a "Happy" marriage would give it all up for a one night stand with a millionaire like Brad Pitt. It's just he has higher value then her husband who works in an office lol.

Also philosophically speaking, there's an issue of morality. Ask Immanuel Kant, Søren Kierkagaard, and St. Augustine if this is moral. Most probably wouldn't like the answer from these eminent philosophers. So this question is definitely something we just can't go without giving no cognitive thought to. But when it all comes down to it, we have free will it's your choice - just think about it.