hey guys,

Well I been thinking a lot about confidence and where is comes from. I have been wondering if people gain confidence from experience or the way they dress or how they feel about themselves or if its something that we have engrained in our very nature or if we are groomed to have it from birth or if its something else entirely. So like I know how I gained confidence and how I got to that point and I wanna help other people that were once like me to gain that confidence too. So in my case I was unconfident and totally un-alpha. And how I got to the point to believe that I am who i am and if someone doesnt like that they could pound sand so to speak, comes from inside me. I believe that confidence and happiness and all the other positive thoughts and out looks come from inside ones self.

So with that said I want to know what you believe in the matter of gaining confidence and if you dont have it yet whats holding you back.

It depends so much on the person there isnt a straight answer.

Just look at how some PUAs dress. They look like mental people who have robbed a fancy dress shop. I guess they dont care about how they dress, thier confidence comes from somewhere different.

For me however I like to look stylish. If I look like I should be on the cover of GQ magazine then I feel like I should be on the cover of GQ magazine.

I probably feel my best when Im wearing a hand tailored tuxedo. My shoulders look broad, my waist looks narrow, my ass looks fantastic, I feel like the picture of the perfect male. If people say 'did you tie that bowtie yourself' I say 'Yes, obviously' and feel even more alpha. This is what works for me.

I dont need to wear something to feel confident, Im very confident without clothes on. However it helps me stand up straight and it gets me attention.