Yo, so there's this HB that I've got a thing for and I'm not really sure what to do in this situation. Not a super big question or anything but here it goes:

We had made plans last Friday to go clubbing and she pulled a same day flake. I told her that I was just gonna have fun without her [playfully]. SUPER early the next morning I texted her "crazy night!! damn you missed out". She texted me back later on the actual day and I felt like calling her instead the next day (saturday) to tell her about my night.

So I called and she said she happened to be out of town eating dinner and said she'd call back right after dinner. Well she never called back and the whole night I'm thinking what the fuck. I happened to party that night and my drunken thoughts were spilling to my friends..oh god..Then I feel like I went AFC because I called her. She calls me today around the same time I called her last and I really didn't feel like talking to her just because 1)I didn't feel like doing anything productive 2)I was a little mad she didn't call me back when she said she would (I'm retarded I know ) and 3)My story wasn't gonna be as thrilling for me to tell.

Pretty much I'm just asking if I should text her telling her I was busy and asking to hang out soon or call her tomorrow to hang out. I mean, she'll be wondering why I didn't call her, so that's why I'm thinking I should text her?

Thanks in advance!

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Just call her and chop it up. I prefer calls over text all day.

If she called you that last time, and you did not call or text her since she said she'd call the day before, then I would just proceed as planned and act like it never happened.

Make sure you keep it call for call and text for text. Don't call or text her more often than she calls or texts you.

If you're not feeling as "thrilling" or "exciting" as you were the night before, it's all good. Just talk to her like a normal person, it's okay to be down beat sometimes.

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Also, just remember: Normal people are busy.

You have your own life and she has hers.

Don't worry about it if she has to flake, or if she doesn't call you back right away. It's normal.

Act like it's all good and you were busy anyway, instead of being needy and worrying about her calling you when she said she'd call you and all that other AFC bullcrap.

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