Hey guys, new to the forum and could use a little advice from you master gamers. Im 22 years old and have pretty solid inner game, though I do have my afc moments, still learning. Here's my situation.

Anyway, I met an HB10 at the beach 3 weeks back. She was alone reading so I invited her to sit with me and my friends, from there I got her number and set up a second date. Had sex after the 3rd date. Since then we really hit it off. We've been on 5 or 6 dates and she calls or texts me pretty much everyday. I think we could both sense it getting serious.

Then saturday happened. Some of my friends called and wanted to play basketball at my house ( i have a half court bball court ) while she was at a friend's birthday gathering. I told her to come by after for a glass of wine and to hangout. She came over earlier then expected (mostly because her birthday friend was a no show so she left early) so we were still in the heat of a game. She sat and watched our game and seemed to be a little annoyed but no signs of discontent were glaringly apparent. Afterward we only talked for 15 minutes til she had to get home due to work in the morning, though all seemed good. We didnt talk much sunday til I called her on my break at work to see how her day went. We talked for a little then she brought up saturday night. She said she had fealt uncomfortable watching me play. I play very hard, cause i love the game, but it could have been interpretted as show offy or ball hoggy. She even heard some of my friends talking shit on me from the sidelines, which is normal with 10 competitive guys going at it, but could have been viewed different in her eyes.

Thats when she said, "I don't know, I think my feelings for you have changed" after watching me that night. I asked her if she was serious, and probably sounded a little shocked, cause I was. I simply wrote it off and said that were guys and we go at it and talk shit on eachother. She seemed to be passed it until she brought it up in our conversation again saying she "didnt know how she fealt" about me. At that point I started to get a little short with her and said I had to get back to work, leaving the conversation hanging a bit, though she knew I had a short break. I called her a few hours later with no answer and didnt leave a message.

I havent talked to her since and I don't plan on talking to her unless she calls me back. But I would like to know if there's anyway to to get passed the situation without it getting weird. What kind of damage control advice can you guys give me to keep her attracted. Any input is appreciated! Thanks.

this is kind of an odd scenario.. i dont see how her watching you play basketball would change her feelings towards you ?

she must of heard something from your friends or something else must have gone down for her to have this sudden change of heart. its just very odd.

normally playing sports would raise your value and manliness etc.

so i dont know whats up with her.

just play it cool, act as if its not an issue, because it isnt.

if she doesnt like the fact that your competitive, if thats a deal breaker for her, then so be it.

Thanks for your input. Yeah I agree with you, its a weird scenario. The only logical conclusions I can come up with are she was genuinely uncomfortable watching me dominate 9 other grown men at basketball (odd) or one of my friends said something cynical about me behind my back. Probably out of jealousy. plus it probably wasnt all that fun for her. Im guessing she came over to fuck and we never got there so that could have been the problem.

She did text me back and apologize for missing my phone call last night, but I don't know if I should contact her right away. I plan on playing it cool like nothing happened but should I contact her right away, wait for a while, and just freeze her out til she calls me back?

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