Basic situation is interesting in itself, but what happened today made me wander what the fuck is going on here. I'm not even going to mention all the other wtfs that has happened today, but this was really not the only one, however those don't concern pick-up at all.

So long story short, after our break-up we've been keeping in touch with my ex, she told me she cheated, and after that we went separate. No drama, staying as pals, not truly friends, but almost. However, this no drama thing has really become ridiculous. The other guy has become literally one of my best friends. He also doesn't really want anything from her, just friends. But that's not what my ex wants, she fell for him quite badly. Thing is the three of us hangs out together a lot, since I only moved to the adjecent room after the break-up(living in dorm)

So that's for the interesting part. Now what happened today was very fucked up in so many ways... Not long after our break-up, I'd talked with my ex about that we wouldn't get back together, nor would we fuck or anything like that.

Now today, I was sitting with the guy at the balcony, smoking and studying, when my ex comes out too. She sat next to ME, which was not interesting at that moment... Soon after she started messing around. She took my pen, she was playing with my hands, she hugged me, she was all flirty and shit. I just didn't have a damn clue about what was going on. I still kept my cool, and the conversation was still going between the three of us, all of us really seemed to enjoy ourself, like laughing and such. While at one point, she just packs her stuff, and gets back to her room, and she says good bye. Okay... we didn't mind altough I was already pretty mind fucked. After that, all day she was very antisocial refusing to talk to anyone. She seemed to get in a very bad mood in one single moment.

Truth is, there was some other shit going on earlier that day. She had an ex, from 2 years ago. And that creepy chode still, once in a while, gets it in his chody head, that "They were meant to be" and "He loves her so much". That is very not cool, this pissed my ex off quite badly, but I sort of seemed to comfort her about this. Altough when I told her about how desperate this is, and how much I don't understand the dude because I've been living here in the next room, ever since the break-up, and I could manage to get over this in 2 months, while he's still creeping around after 2 years. Now if I recall correctly, this truly was the first time I told her face to face I'm pretty much over her.

Another thing is, there's another dude who sometimes bangs her. They are pretty much fuck buddies, for now. She asked me if I had seen him because she wanted some physics notes(that's true btw... I know for a fact) Now I didn't want to tell her like that, but I was thinking something like "How the fuck should I know? It's not me whom he's banging" Whatever. I told her I haven't seen him, and she couldn't really get this managed today because the dude didn't pick it up.

So, I've got some theories, and I'm awaiting others, if you have some, and possibility guesses, please share.

#1. She played some tactics and wanted to get the dude to be jelous, altough when it didn't work out, with all the shit that happened with her today, with exams too, was a bit too much for her for one day and that's why she got upset.

#2. She was just having a bad day, and that's why she behaved weird in the first place, and when all the shit combined she had enough.

#3. She was totally cool, and didn't want anything really, however she was planning some midnight cock for today, and it got her upset that she didn't get it.

#4. The fact that I'm over her pissed her off a little, because she wanted to keep me in the off hand, and she tried, but it was ineffective, all the other shit made her mood really bad.

#5. The fact that I'm over her, and the fact that she's hearing how many girls I'm gaming at the moment made her interested again, which I ignored, and with all the other shit it was just too much. (very unlikely)

#6. Some combinations of these five.

Any idea is appreciated.

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For my experience, women sometimes get total crazy and you cannot know their reasons. This is why some AFC sometimes go lucky for no reasons. What I can suggest is: if you are over her, just don't bother. If you bother, it would look like you are not totally over her. Which may be what she wanted. You never know. Women are women ergo are entitled to act crazy.

no offence but you kind of seem quite stuck on her rather than being over her.

i can tell cos if you were over her you wouldn't be asking these questions.

I'm asking those questions because this kind of behaviour is something that she's never shown since our break-up and I'm thinking about all possible cases. I even added the last two are very unlikely. I'm not gonna prove that I'm over her. I know I am. This was just weird and that's all. It wouldn't bother me at all if I knew her reasons. You see, I care for most people in my close envirement. I don't want any more shit floating around in our waters. I have many other and bigger piles of shit besides this to deal with anyway. When this happened, as I've said, I kept my cool. I didn't confront her about this, I didn't ask her about this, I didn't do anything, I even played along and used this to add some additional fun to the interaction. But I'm just wondering what is going on, and I was thinking some more experienced members have been in an at least somewhat similar situation, and could help me figure this out.

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Little update. Yesterday the same shit happened when there were just the two of us. Frankly, I didn't care at all. I noticed but I truly didn't give a fuck. I am now wondering why did I care in the first place? Perhaps just because it was uncommon. But now I'm like... If she wants to hug me and flirt and shit, well then I'm not going to make a deal of it. If this continues like this it will be clear in a small matter of time what she wants anyway, because we both are staying for the summer in the dorm, while neither her crush, nor her fuck buddy will.

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You need to go BALLSSS DEEEEEP

The next time she's hugging and flirting, tell her...

Hey girl..wanna see my honda?

And then just AH - AH- AH! AH! GO BALLSSS DEEEP in her.

Yeah well. I've been gaming a good amount of girls since the break-up but some because of my fault, some because of other circumstances never got to an f-close. I'm not planning on banging her until I fuck at least someone else. That's a principle of mine. No sex with the ex, before I went inside someone else. I don't think it would be a good idea otherwise.

This is just the side story of some of the girls that didn't go well lately...

Girl #1. Very hot and cute girl. She was looking for something serious, and while I was not, I even considered it with her. Problem is that she's moving away soon and it's 400 kms far from here. I've had one Long distance relationship and it was more than enough...

Girl #2. Again, hot and cute girl. I was really thinking about serious things with her if things worked out. But... turns out that 1) She's not over her ex yet. 2) She's a virgin. This would be just enough problem by itself, but then I realised they had been together for 5 months. 5 months and no sex. I just know that I could not wait so long. And since she's a very nice girl, I'm not planning on getting together with her and cheating until she gives in. That's just wrong. That ex was also her first boyfriend which was very surprising for me. I mean... she's very hot and 21 years old.

Girl #3. A group mate of mine. I didn't plan on gaming her, things just got flirty. After that I really just wanted to fuck her, and I guess it would have been okay with her. Problem was that I know her boyfriend. He's even sort of friends of mine, and I don't like creating shit like this.

Girl #4. Cute nympho girl. She has a crush on my best friend and he sometimes bangs her, but very rarely because he's not that into her. Now my friend will leave the university and this girl has no real guy friends besides me and him, and she's not the outgoing type either. She's had more than enough shit in her life for anyone, so it's not so surprising. I've been thinking much about what to do with her, but I figured it will be best not to put myself in a situation like my friend, and just remain friends with this girl. (He also said that the sex was not so great... She's very handy, but dry and doesn't seem to enjoy it. It's a long story, but I have a good guess on the reasons. Let's just say that it's not because my friend is so bad in bed...)

Girl #5 Girl I met at a pub. I truly fucked that one up. I was a little too pushy.

Girl #6 Girl I met at a local bar. It was pretty much on for a while, but then she said she had a boyfriend. Which I didn't really care about up until the point when he arrived. It was impossible from there of course...

And the list just goes on and on. I really have no luck nowadays, and because I still have exams left, I barely have time for this too. I'm just looking forward to the summer.

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