| I'll give 2 recent examples where in both I built good initial attraction, or so I thought. I'll let you guys chime in and offer advice on what I could do different.
HB Pink
Met this girl at the bar near last call. Just walked in and struck up a conversation quickly with her at the bar. She followed her friend outside and gestured me to follow which I just stayed put. Found her a few minutes later on the dance floor with her friend and one other guy. I told her friend to dance with the one guy and I will take HB Pink. We danced and chatted a bit as I spun her on the d floor, she was crazy about my six pack and lifting my shirt and excitedly showed her friend, which I was slightly embarresed about. But anyway, continued dancing with her and asked what her neck tattoo meant. She explained and I started making out with her neck. Took her off the dancefloor and had her write her number on my hand as my phone was dead. There was def attraction here. Moments later she was heading out with her friend so I asked what her plan was, she said she had to bring her friend home but was interested in hanging out after. I told her I'd text her.
[about an hour later]
Me: Hey this is Dirty. Here's my number. What's up.
HB Pink: Hey whatsup
Me: Just cruisin with my roommate havin a good time. You still with your friend?
HB Pink: Yupp but she wants to go home
Me: Thats cool I'm sure she has stuff to do tomorrow. Whats your plan then?
HB Pink: Might head back to PA[PA is the town she lives at about 45 min away]
Me: Tonight?
HB Pink:Yahhh
Me: Well I was gonna chill and go for a cruise, does that sound like something you'd be interested in?
HB Pink: I'm just in a bad mood what are you doing tomorrow
Me: Why are you in a bad mood you seemed cool
HB Pink: I know just fighting with one of my friends
Me: Theres nothing better for that than someone to talk to. Your not going to bed are you?
HB Pink: No I'm not I just really wanna be in my own bed right now
Me: [said something else here but she did no respond]
I know my text game has went to shit.
HB Park
[met this girl in the park while tossing the football around with the shirt off, likely built initial attraction because I'm in pretty decent shape]
Her dog starts barking at my friend and I follow up with asking if hes always that crazy. We chat about pets as I have 2 dogs myself. Chat about what there is to do in the area, attraction seems good as she keeps the conversation going as her friend lies on the blanket beside her. I ask if there is anywhere good to get a drink around, and they recommend me a place. I tell her that we are thinking of having a BBQ soon and they should come. Her friend says her fiance will not like that, I tell her to bring him along. I tell HB Park to give me her number and she complies. Soon after my buddy and I take off to go get a drink, where I text her about an hour later.
Me: Hey It's Dirty. Here's my number, I'll catch you later.
HB Park: How old are u?
don't answer for the rest of the day, next day:
Me: Hey there
[no answer, so I text again in about 2 hours]
Me: And I'm 24 by the way. How about yourself?
No answer, confused as there was definately a bit of attraction in the park. Not sure what I did wrong here.
So 2 flakes after good initial attraction. Anyone have some good advice and good reads on text game? I recently read one and think it messed up my original text game which was fine.
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