So, I have this chick friend who is a good christian, wait till marriege type girl. No problem.. whatever(sucks cause she's hot and chill). Issue is, her and I have fooled around a few times (Nothing serious to me but a big deal to her) and there was some connection there. However, because we were so different I stoped any romantic involvement but we remained friends.

Question is: How do I approach girls or bring girls around her without hurting her feelings? Ex. She's coming on a beach camping trip w/ some friends and I and I plan on Pulling as many women as possible.

Sorry so long for such an easy question

You're making this a non-issue.

Have you been honest with her?

Does she know you're not seeking a relationship with anyone at this time? If so - go to the party and ENJOY yourself. Treat her simply naturally.

If you haven't had that conversation, or you're not sure - you can either ignore it and see if it festers or dies at the beach - OR, you can confront it and ensure all your shit is in the open. I go for the confrontation.

At the end of the day - you can't MAKE her feel ANYTHING. They're HER feelings. They're HER responsibility - just as your feelings are your own.

You may feel like a complete dick at the beach when you're with another chick and see her. Don't blame her for that either. And - likewise, if you're a dick, if she hooks up with another dude - so what? THAT also, isn't your fault.

Control what's within your control. Give information to ensure others have a realistic concept of whom you are and then LIVE YOUR LIFE.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

Yeah, You are completely right. We have had this talk, before, during and after our little thing. So I'm gonna try not to worry about it

Bravo... and there's always the chance you make the goodie-two-shoes jealous, then she fucks you later as it is...

All good things.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

where u see a problem i see an opportunity

I doubt feelings of jealousy would be strong enough to overcome her Faith. You have common sense, if you believe she has feelings for you...how would you want her to handle that if she were you?

I've defiled a good christian before. Not really what I'm tryin to be, if it happened I wouldn't hate it but I'm not hunting it.

As for if the tables were turned? I would just want her to be honest and i probably wouldn't hang around her if it was something I couldn't handle

Well, everyone doesn't stand as strong in their Faith...but, as you seem to know just talk to her about it....

Eh. Talking about feelings annoys the hell out if me. That's why I avoid women and told her how I was, so I wouldn't have to talk about feelings

Either she cares that she sees your with other females or she doesn't. This is not complicated; its one question with a yes or no answer.