I posted this in the online part but didnt get the replys i was looking for is game really as easy as this ???



Ok well lets be honest here game too me is so complicated i have a decent level of confidence but iv been struggling in texts an that in person i can just be myself i dont really care what people think an it seems to work but text game shocking.

So i decided ill practice on POF for 2 weeks iv messaged countless girls few replys been opened on there a few times but never realy been intrested. Anyway heres my text with this girl you will see how bad my game is canned opener of here.

Me
6/15/2012 11:35:09 PMYou're not a huge Beyonce fan are you?


Her
6/17/2012 11:24:50 PMNot a huge fan haha why?




Me
6/18/2012 12:57:47 AMThank god!! you look like a girl i use to date who had an unhealthy obsession over her tweeting her all day constantly playing her songs, her bedroom was covered in her pictures really crazy i had to get rid, Was just checking too see if your normalish a bit of randomness is just sexy though


Her
6/21/2012 10:57:24 PMHaha fair enough




Me
6/22/2012 12:24:27 AMYeah dont be worried to lighten up a bit, It sounds like i come off a bit one thing wrong then i have to get rid but dont worry i know no one is perfect.
Let me ask you a question do guys on here seriously ask you to send them kinky underwear ?? Some right nutters on here whats the point id rather see you in your underwear. Ill grab you a malibu an pineapple juice first though, if you make sure you wear frenchies for me (; Deal ???


Her
6/22/2012 12:42:26 AMHmmmm go on then. Deal


Ok this is my first sort of succsess online im not 100% sure who knows she may just be playin me.

The malibu drink was in her profile an she had a dont message me part saying dont ask me to send you underwear.

The date i probably wont go on as i have no money or car an she lives a good few miles away although she does drive im attracted to her but this is mainly practise too me if i get on with her then who knows.
I have very good pictures on my profile maybe thats why it helped any help guys where to go next what im doing right wrong cheers

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You're trying to hard. Even without reading, you're writing a lot more than she is. Be concise, witty and smart.

The point of messaging, whether online or text, is to have fun, but not be try-hard. Remember, especially on online dating sites, girls get a lot of messages. You have to be slightly different and have a good profile.

You should come from a mindset of unneediness, uncaringness, and being unapologetic.

"Yeah dont be worried to lighten up a bit, It sounds like i come off a bit one thing wrong then i have to get rid but dont worry i know no one is perfect." What was this? You didn't need to say any of that.

You are trying to convince her of something, to lighten up. Whatever man, just have fun and keep it short.

Hmmm i have got a date out of her in a few messages iv been trying to cut down the amount i write but its soo hard this is why i enjoy speaking to people in person an hate texting or anything to do with writing things.

could you do me a favour an read it please my profile is very good on pof and i do get opended which is a first for pof an my pictures are just full of hbs

i shall take your advice on board though cheers

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