Hey guys,

I have a quick question. An HB from university that I've been texting for a while is giving off some IOIs, though I'm not sure how I should approach this. Here's a brief history of what's happened:

1) We were going to a theme park with some friends (she only knew me, my friend, and her friend - out of 8 of us)
2) On the day of, she calls me to ask where I was (since I was late). A bit later, she texts me again while I was on the bus.
3) At the theme park, we meet up and she ignores me completely.
4) She puts her purse in my bag and goes to check her phone in it like every 5-10 minutes.
5) Whenever I try to talk to her, she ignores me and goes away somewhere else.
6) I DHV everyone else, and when I do that she puts her head on me or comes check her phone in my bag.

(I took all this as an IOI)

7) The day after, she texts me to say whats up. I respond immediately, but the exchange was really cold (really short replies from her, no lols or :)s)
8) I text her 2 days later, and still it's pretty dry conversation.
9) She hasn't initiated conversation again and it's been another 2 days.


I've been really friendly to her via text and in person. Do you think that's the right approach or should I use more game in my texting?

Is she confused or just being passive agressive? What should I do now?

Thanks!

I say show diseninterest and show the willing to walk away... and show that yu have a bigger social value than what she thought.... she's showing unlikable traits because she has felt she has won you. You gotta make it more exciting than this muh man. She has to feel just as excited as you are... and when it comes to text... take as long to reply as she took.... or at least wait some time... what you were doing I think showed too much eagerness which gives off an agenda vibe which scares girls off... next time kino more. Be subtle with you kino. Make it more formal... than ramp it up... if you feel resistance iod her and and ramp it up again... kino my friend.... your answer is kino...

I say show diseninterest and show the willing to walk away... and show that yu have a bigger social value than what she thought.... she's showing unlikable traits because she has felt she has won you. You gotta make it more exciting than this muh man. She has to feel just as excited as you are... and when it comes to text... take as long to reply as she took.... or at least wait some time... what you were doing I think showed too much eagerness which gives off an agenda vibe which scares girls off... next time kino more. Be subtle with you kino. Make it more formal... than ramp it up... if you feel resistance iod her and and ramp it up again... kino my friend.... your answer is kino...

I don't think those were IOIs per say. I think she may just be taking your current relationship of acquaintances for granted. You could have checked though, when she puts her head on your shoulder say something like "That would be 1$ missy" or some shit like that.

I know a lot of girls who do this stuff. They are very open with their body language. Should you use more game via text? No. Talk to her in person. It is far better. She isn't initiating convo because there is nothing to initiate.

Thanks for the tips guys, that makes a lot of sense.

I'm going to freeze out for a bit, and when we meet again via friend events, I won't give off any IOIs (and focus on DHVing) until she shows some strong ones first.

I'll also stop initiating texts with her, and keep my texts pretty formal if she initiates.

Do you think this is a better strategy?