hey guys.. I m in college(in india).. And would like to pickup some chiks(or atleast make some girlfriends).. But dont know how to get the balls to try opening. I got no wing-man.. And m a newbie. I think subconsciously i m scared of social rejection or somthin..please help thanks

Hey i'm also in college and at first i felt like you, and even though i been trying to teach AFC's some of this stuff they think i just want to manipulate girls, which to my point of view its not what i want.. but back to the point.

you need to always approach confidently and with a smile..
i have fucked it up a few times because i would look too serious or i would be feeling nervous.. i have gotten rejected a few times but that doesn't bother me at all now.

i usually walk around campus with a smile, and since its campus
i would be like

hey i'd seen you a couple of times around, you should remember my name and say hi next time [cocky funny by David D]..
or like if they look at me in the eye while i walk towards them
"you can't do that" they will always be puzzled and ask what?
then you'll say
"you cannot stare at me and not saying anything" followed by whats your name id seen you around a few times..
another one i usually use its i try to be on the way so they could bump into me
and i would be "AAAAHHH"
they gonna be like "im sorry"
so i would say something like
"Whats your name, you gonna hear from my lawyer"
"did you just grabbed my ass"

what has worked for me may not work for you. but i tend to use alot of Humor. i try to make them smile within the first minute of interaction.
that way they could notice that you are friendly and good to hang out with.
and be more willing to advance in conversation with you..
otherwise if you come serious or hesitatingly you may as well tell her that your a creep and that you wanna bang her.

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thanks spacevolt! could u give more examples which i can use.. I mean the layer thing is funny and good i'l try it out..! i just hope i wont be slapped thanks again

Well i think the openers don't matter as much..
i mean you need to work on your inner game..
you have to feel good with yourself
you need to fake confidence and eventually have it..
feel great, feel like you own the place, the world is yours

the more you feel this way, that's the energy you give out
and people around you notice that.. they without knowing will feel attracted to you.

i try to feel that all the time. and i always catch several girls staring at me
and it makes it easier to approach them, or they to approach you by just wondering around you.. then that's when you don't really need an overused opener. you could just say
"hi, i never seen you around on campus are you new?


if your a newbie like you said
i really recommend Neil Strauss "the stylelife challenge" and "the game"
"the game" is his own story [which gave me amounts of motivation]
"the challenge" its like a step to step on how to build a better presentation of you
it goes from body posture, clothing, voice tonality, and missions that you need to complete to meet more women and keep them around you.

but for now go out and try the openers i gave you..
for now go and try to get rejected at least 5 times
using those lines
you gonna find it hard if you come up as confident and friendly.

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Space.volt

No wingman no worries my friend.

Be your own - if you catch a girl looking, keep to look until she looks three times then you know she want you go over and chat. The 3 looks is sign.

Often to have 3 looks take nearly 35 to 40mins and maybe 2 hours but all worth wait.

Jav.

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direct is the way to go. if u smoke weed then ask them if they smoke weed. then take em back to your place to smoke. this was my most effective line in college.

Yes...go to EVERY girl and ask her if she smokes weed. Become the drug supplier. Guaranteed closes.

Or rather than using weed as a CRUTCH, go up and put yourself on the fucking line.

The chica no smoke the weed, just smoke Javier, yes?

Bueno.

Jav.

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