why do i need a woman to fulfill me?

can i fulfill myself without looking to someone else (a hot babe) or something else (career) to fulfill me?

if i find what it is i'm looking for (self-fulfillment/self-respect/love) will that paradoxically make me more attractive to others because i'm not looking to them to fulfill me?

in short, when my 'cup' is full and overflowing will i be in a better position to give to others instead of always looking to take from their cup????

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If you're happy the way your life is then stick with it. It's not necessary to go out there and sarge but we do it because we can and because we want to in order for us to reach the goal that we want.

i can sarge right now and i want to. but up until recently it didnt feel right because something was missing.

i felt i was seeking something from them (validation) rather than offering them something. hence didnt go too well.

i think this is about to change now....

In UK the man fulfill the woman in normal situation, and Puerto Rico too.

Sometime I think man fulfill man, but not for Javier. What in your country?

Jav.

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UK. London. like you.

i think its not the country but the individual.

No, you don't NEED women to be happy.... You need to be happy with yourself first and the rest will compliment your life.

When woman NEED me Latino heat I am happy yes.

Muy bien.

Jav.

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It's a subjective thing, but, the way I see it, a good career and a good woman etc all contribute to a person being "filled"... Once you do feel content and satisfied I suppose that you'd be in a much better position to give to others, and it would make you more attractive, once all those small things (things you need to satisfy yourself) are taken care of.

Yes. I think I am and will give and "fill" others always.

But when you "fill" one woman too much sometime they push it out back at you.

Javi.

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Try reading Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now".

I think its exactly what you are looking for.

I believe that if you do not look to what you dont have and try to do the best with what you do have, you can acquire everything that you want.

If you reach self fullfilment in whichever way you like, you will become more attractive to women. Reaching fulfillment will mean emotional and psychological stability also maybe health and success, in short you will become more attractive and your inner game will be tight, you will also have more confidence and your positive energy will reflect in all other aspects of your life, not just women. If you do find fullfillment women will surely notice it and will become more attracted to you.

Looking at dating sites you will find that women are usually looking for guys "who know what they want', that are 'ambitious' and 'passionate' about what they do as a recurrant theme.

ironically, it's not needing a woman to fullfill you that draws women to you. Even if you pickup, you will lose the woman long term if u dont have something else going on in your life. Women feel pressured by guys who make them their world.

But ulitmately, I would say yes, you need a woman to complete you, like theTheir arent many of those around.

So short term no, long term yes. But never let go of your own life.

When you are self-sufficient a woman is nothing more than entertainment.

thats assuming the woman is somebody who makes you efficient. If you have a woman cause you simply dont want to live without her, which can happen at any time, shes more than entertainment. She s part of the team.

I know Ive let some gems go due to my own stupidity and clingingness.

Pussy is entertainment, good people are life sustaining.