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 Post subject: My crew amoging me
PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 12:34 am 
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Hello,

I have studied pua for over a year now from mystery method to rsd, and only started to successfully score girls frequently a couple of months ago when i broke some of my internal barriers, for me all i needed was to set my inner game.

My group consists of 3 other friends and me, they are all naturals and they are all very good at picking up women. Our daily routine consists of working out in the morning, going to the pool and sarging every night, we have been on this routine everyday for a month now and i believe it will go all summer. We sarge everyday and we have managed to build up a reputation where were from.

For a long time I have stayed in my groups shadow due to them bieng naturals and very good at picking up women and I bieng clueless as how to get women, getting lucky every now and then. I studied pua and observed my friends for a year now. 2 months ago is when i started to really get good, better than the crew, and i became the alpha of my group. It is only a few days ago that i realised i have a problem.

This week I have gotten with 3 girls: a 9 I picked up in a bar, an ex that I re-initiated contact with and a friend with benefits. These events followed:

After picking up the 9 'wich i was crazy about'. i went back to my place had sex with her and then called her the next day as to not make her feel like a slut and also to show her that it wasn't just a one night stand, she was very into me and asked around about me, i made plans with her to go to the pool, day 2 she came but i made a big mistake of staying outside and 'tanning' and not giving her attention to act not needy and add a push and pull sense, she didnt re-initiate contact and when she asked me later what was wrong by text, i made up an excuse. The next day she came to the pool with a friend without telling me and when i came to talk to her she started avoiding me. I thought she got turned off and I let her be. I was upset but i thought to myself on to the next one. Same day my friend with benefits comes up to me and tells me that she's heard that ive been calling her a slut and telling people we have sex, when we built our relationship on descretion, she didnt tell me who accused me of doing that, still nailed her anyways after she cooled down. but by now im like what the hell!?
Then a couple of days later i get with my ex, we talk I tell her about whats going on and shes tells me that 2 out of my 3 best friends have been amoging the shit out of me behind my back with her and I put 2 and 2 together and I realize thats pretty much what happened with every other girl i have gotten with recently too, theyve been talking shit about me to girls i hook up with preventing me from getting past the first lay or make out.

Now I believe that I am a good loyal friend, who wants the best for my crew but apparently theyre witnessing me get better than them which they dont want and theyre bringing me down. I know some of you will tell me that they are half ass friends and i should ditch them which i am seriously considering doing but the popularity we have together and the opportunities for women are alot greater than going solo.

I was wondering if there was any advice on how to counter such amoging and what I should do? I know this is a massive DLV and will cost me alot of girls in the future if it goes on, social dominance is very important to my game and now i am clueless. I have also yet to confront them as our day is usually very hectic, also to my face they are very normal and nothing seems off.

I will listen to your suggestions first then I will confront them or ditch them and update with the events.


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 Post subject: let the hater hate
PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 9:20 am 
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i think u should just keep doing what ur doing and let them hate. i think being a hater make it harder for girls to like them. so the more they hate the more the girls will want u so it okay. it not even ur fault either. so keep doing what u do.

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 10:53 am 
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This could just be me. But I think that there is a difference from being a bitchy back stabbing ****, to being the AMOG/AMOGing. General 'Banter' between the lads is good and I think we all do it to each other. But going out of your way to sabotage your mates relationships with different girls is past banter right?

There has been times where my friends have taken banter too far and vice versa, but all we do is call each other out on it and it stops there. So that's what i'd recommend trying that. If that doesn't work then I think it's time for you to leave them, I myself have had to make new friends since learning pick up and general self improvement as my old friends were holding back my social life, but as your friends are naturals I don't quite understand why they would be bitter as that's the impression I get into how they are according to to this post/

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 4:55 pm 
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just confront them. mates are for life. sort it out.

if youre not being fake, then they might be jealous. just get it out there.

dont just leave your friends man. the good times outweigh the bad.

* also make sure youre not sounding like an egotistical jerk when you are telling them about it. bragging about girls wont do you any favors with your mates. if you and that girl were being discreet what did you tell them?

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 21, 2012 5:28 pm 
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Il give you some advice, in life you will have very few people who you can trust, in fact your own family can turn on you!

The only person you can trust is your self so hold your cards close to your heart! I have been screwed over many times by people who I thought had my back! friends, family, gf of 4 years, doesn't matter!

what would I do? I would call them out on it, I would tell them you heard something that you are very disappointed about. I would tell them that they really messed things up with a couple girls and in the future they have to have your back just as you will have their back, friends make each other look good not bad!

If they deny it then you know you cant trust them and you should stop sharing info with them about the women you get with, and if you have a gf at some point, or are dating someone you should be very careful!


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