I was at this party this weekend where i ran into a girl i use mess with, about 2 years ago it ended pretty bad in a fight, i didn't really care so i haven't really thought about her. at the party she shows up, and starts talking to me and then tells me how much she missed me an all this other touchy feely-ish bs that i kinda really didn't respond to, then she stated all her problems but then acted like she wasn't depressed and then told her that i really didn't care what she was feeling an that i moved on some time ago. then afterwards later that night i get these texts.

HER: I missed you, an if you never want to speak to me again that's fine. Technically i don't know you anymore, an i wish you the best an that you may go about you're life this way or else wise. Just know that i gave a fuck and my life is good otherwise. Ill never forget you and if you ever wanna hang out and catch up, i'm down for it. I won't be played a fool. I just don't want to miss out on something worthwhile.

ME: Okay.

HER: Look i don't care where your at in life right now or what you want. I know for sure as hell you don't want anything from me, or do you? You wouldn't have given me the fifth-teen minutes alone to talk to you if you didn't care. So you do what i want just know that i cared. I always did an i always will. So as long as you're happy, i have nothing to say. I just cared and i guess that's my weakness. It was nice seeing you.


I never responded after this text. Between the "I don't feel like getting into a text fight" and the "I want to let her stew on this for awhile" complex i have, i didn't respond.

Anyways, what do you think shes feeling?, she has a boyfriend. but she also seems rather distrought over my rat-ass. any thoughts would be appreciated, i am CONSIDERING texting her thursday but i haven't decided if shes worth it, cause i know shell try to argue with me, anyway im talking to other women too but this one is the most interesting/ratchet case i have.

Well what do you want from her? A fuck buddy or a relationship?

From my personal opinion, I would move on, who needs a relationship with fighting and negative energy. Unless you thrive off of that lol

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id take a fuck buddy haha. you know i feel like i do thrive off negativity.

If it's a fuck buddy you want, I definitely think you'll be able to hit that a couple of times(get her alone and it's a done deal). As long you don't catch emotions, it sounds like she'll always be on the chase for you.

But I don't go down this road, good luck and stay safe! lol

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