there is a great girl I have had a lot of fun with over the past few years, its wavered between friends and lovers with no strings. it happened mainly between breakups with girlfriends for me. she is hot, very strong minded and due to this I never see her with boyfriends. to my knolege it was years ago that her last one was.
this girl and I have alot of shared interest and get on really well in and out of the bedroom. hell even my family want me to get with her.

the problem is I fucked it up the last time bigtime chode style. she pulled away after we hooked up and I chased like a puppy. this was pre PUA reading.

anyway. Iv gone and ignored her for the last 6 months to try and reset the fuck up that I did, and now Im working to rebuild.

oh yea and iv been rooting one of her best mates but as far as I am aware she has kept it to herself.

My plan is to treat it like any other chick and hit her up escalate escalate escalate, I already know her turnons so id say if I can pump the buying tempreture itl come off well and well bang again. then afterwards be the non committal one.

Is this plan solid ? otherwise can someone please turn their caps lock on and tell me to get over my oneitis I think I need to hear it.

If you're fucking her friend, it's not oneitis. it's a case of wanting your cake and eating it, too.

But - you've seduced this chick. Do it again. If the sex was good, she'll remember. The kicker is the ending you guys had before. Chasing her AFC-style isn't a deal breaker.

If you nuked the exit, you'll know.

What I mean is if I want to terminally end contact with a chick, I nuke her. I'll be as direct and cutting as I need to be to ensure she understands "there will never be anything between us ever". You come across almost like a dick - but the honesty factor removes the worry. That said, I also know I'll never hit that again.

But you need to feel out the dynamic of her and her friend. If you go to her, and her friend runs her mouth, you're doubly fucked but not in a good way.

RR

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its in her friend best interest to zip up, as there is a new man on her scene, plus weve cooled off sex wise (stopped for now)

but iv never known a girl who keeps her mouth shut



this girl is great, and no matter how many other girls I fuck I allways think she would make a great LTR Ie she is quality. and fits my criteria

Its funny to observe her, she has a incredibly strong reality. and displays heaps of tecnique that is thrown around here, yet has no idea she is doing it naturally.

thanks RetiredRodeo. Ill shoot for it, and if it fails ill let it go

is there any value to the nuke or is it just somthing that gives you peace of mind? I dont want to come off like a child throwing a tantrum cause i didnt get my way.

I nuked an ex GF quite a while ago.

She was everything to me. She challenged me, was sexually adventurous, someone with whom to build a future - BUT - - she was nuttier than a football bat. She wanted a ring after 6 weeks, and then zipped up the pants 'until we were married' - I told her we'd never BE married, that I'd never marry someone who had the propensity to withhold affection for me. She said she never would tell me 'no', I informed her she just did...

Fast forward, on/off again, broke up several times, and it was driving me crazy. I realized I'd become her puppet, and needed to cut the strings forever or seriously change my own paradigms/wants/needs.

The final straw was when she wanted to talk with me before last summer when I visited her city (6 hours away, I have lots of family in that town) since I'd moved. We talked on the phone for a few hours - catching up, etc... and the plans were to meet up when I got into town. She's stated she'd not been dating, and made me feel like a champion - until my cousin, who lives in that same small town, saw her with another man.

When confronted; she lied, became indignant, then just disappeared.

So... I'm there visiting my family, I go to the nearby mall, and there walks my ex. She beelines for me, we start conversation and I start sarcastically flaming her, knowing it would piss her off and I could have my exit.

At which time she said "Leave me alone!" And I looked her in the eye and I said "Thnk about the words you just used... I'm leaving right now, and you are so utterly.... fucking..... alone".

I had to. It was killing me. She was a manipulator and I'd allowed it.

Sometimes, it's nice to regain the reins to your own life - even if you miss the lady afterwards. To this day, she's the epitome of sensuality for me. But, I needed to escape.

So it depends... with her - I wanted it done. Just done.

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whoa. thats a rough trip.
Nuke was totally called for. any longer in that suituation would destroy any man.
that sure brings back some memories.
nuked my last GF, couldnt handle it any longer, told her no contact no matter what. such a hard thing to stick to.

Im hoping that girl is in my past, and this one is in my future. She altho isnt as amazing in the sack is something that the last wasnt - balanced.
thanks for posting bro

It turned out to be a great success.
dont you love it when somthing perfectly goes to plan.

only issue it that thru conversation she said that she isnt interested in a relationship, which is sweet and rat shit at the same time, because she is awesome.

meh. had sex dont care.

my monday night girl will be round tonight anyway

said like a true spoilt child......